Men don’t want abortıon.
Men don’t want condoms.
Men don’t want vasectomies.
Men don’t want child support.
They just want unlimited access to women’s bodies with zero consequences.
SAY IT LOUDER.
It's Saturday
I'm not pregnant
I'm not begging a man to be nice to me
December is 3 months away
I'm not typing a paragraph to anybody's son begging for love
Pampers is not a part of my monthly budget for now
Life's good. 🥂
after orgasm a man's body slams the brakes. prolactin floods in, arousal shuts down, the system needs recovery time.
her body doesn't do this. the female refractory period is minimal to nonexistent, and most men have never processed what that means
her arousal doesn't reset to zero after climax. it drops slightly and hovers at altitude. the physiological ceiling that ends his night doesn't exist for her. multiple orgasms aren't a special ability some women have. they're the factory setting of the system, mostly unexplored
- the first orgasm is the hardest one. it required the full 13 minute climb, the amygdala shutdown, the whole cascade. after it, the system is already primed, warmed, and hypersensitive. the second typically arrives in a fraction of the time
- the immediate seconds after her climax are too sensitive for direct contact. pause, indirect touch, then rebuild. the wave comes back faster than it built the first time
- most encounters end at her first orgasm because his ended. his refractory period becomes her ceiling by default, not by biology. hands and mouth have no refractory period
- women who experience multiples with a partner almost universally report it required exactly one thing: a partner who didn't stop at base camp
his biology ends the night once. hers was built for more and has usually never been asked. stopping at one isn't completion. it's stopping at the door of the part of the map she's never been shown
a lab in the netherlands scanned couples during orgasm and stumbled onto the strangest finding in sex research.
when women wore socks, the orgasm rate jumped from 50% to 80%
the researchers weren't studying socks. the scanning room was cold, some women complained, socks were offered. suddenly the success rate exploded and the team realized they'd accidentally run the most important experiment of the study
the mechanism showed up right on the brain scans. female orgasm requires the amygdala, the brain's fear and threat detection center, to power down. cold feet kept the threat system quietly online. warm feet let it switch off. that tiny bit of physical discomfort was enough to block the entire cascade
- her brain cannot climax and scan for problems at the same time. the systems are neurologically mutually exclusive
- socks are a stand-in for the real variable: comfort. temperature, privacy, no time pressure, no risk of interruption, nothing pinching or hurting. every small discomfort is a tax on the fear center
- this is why the same technique works one night and fails the next. the variable that changed wasn't your hands. it was her nervous system's threat level
- the environment is doing foreplay before you touch her. warm room, locked door, no rush, phone away
men study techniques for years and lose to a cold room. her nervous system decides if orgasm is possible before your skills ever enter the conversation. handle the amygdala first. the socks were never about socks
When I was an intern on peds one of my residents told me that he noticed a big difference in the prevalence of rashes, etc in babies in Cuba (where he studied) and babies here. The difference, the Cubans don’t use disposable wipes. They wash their babies’ ass.
i.e. bathe dem!
She articulates herself so well, I tune in every time! People have identity issues causing them cling to roles (wife, mother, career title etc) but you can't replace knowing who you are at your core. And when you know who you are, you choose better, instead of being chosen.
My girl cousin found a video in her sons phone of him throwing up gang signs , she took his phone & made him take up sign language classes for the whole summer since she said he wanna talk with his hands , that’s my type of carrying on .
some of these stories make me wanna die...women deserve at the very LEAST to be treated like human beings and not objects/slaves😭 the bar is literally on the floor and somehow people are still digging underneath it.
went to a school play and some girls hit puberty earlier than the rest and multiple moms said they were “dressed inappropriately” and looked like they were “about to poledance” and it reminded me of how traumatic puberty can be for young girls. immediately you’re something else.
i don't follow the "respect is earned" philosophy. i respect everyone automatically and then each person has the opportunity to lose my respect based on their behavior.
The literacy crisis isn’t just about people struggling to read words. It’s about losing the ability to understand context, infer meaning, question information, and form your own conclusions. And relying on AI to do all that thinking for us is only making the problem worse.