I heard a therapist say, “Your feelings are always valid, your behavior is not.” She explained by saying feel what you feel BUT you need to be accountable for what you do as a result of those feelings.
I want my baby born into stability. With their own everything, both parents together & surrounded by love. It’s enough children goin through shit they don’t deserve or didn’t ask for. I’m so serious about being a good parent & setting up a good example!
Nobody talks about the angry stage of healing. The rage you feel when you realize how much and how long you were taken advantage of. The absolute disgust you feel towards those people that mislead you. It comes in waves. Sometimes you'll feel healed and then it suddenly hits you.