@KBara4735 if you’re looking at it from that POV it’s always going to be hard/wrong. None of what anyone does will make sense to you then. You’re growing and your standards for connection are changing and there’s nothing wrong with questioning the validity of you what you believed prior.
@KBara4735 Oh that I’m aware of too. A prime example are the gays that make being a top/bottom their entire personality complete with prevalent toxic stereotypes to match. It’s wild out there!
@KBara4735 Oh I know it was a joke. I think i know what LOL means by now. 😉 buut, maybe start a podcast that discusses a lot of things we hold on to while dating and how that affects navigating relationships using your experiences as a way to connect to others who have too. Just a thought
@KBara4735 Unwanted STIs or pregnancies aren’t always byproducts of what we’re talking about but they can/will happen. I think my point was in how your original statement is an indication of a larger problem of being and self-worth that many of us ascribe.
@KBara4735 Adults, yes. Healed adults moving with purpose, integrity? Not always. Males who lead with sex are at most shown that at one point and have no fundamentally positive models in how to navigate life differently. They just keep replicating it until it sticks, which is worse
@KBara4735 I shouldn’t have to, but if one thinks that the good hole/pole you have is enough to maintain a relationship than they’re delusional and need therapy instead of another relationship.
@KBara4735 Well that’s also a problem. some people believe their sexual connection to another is their value prop to begin a relationship and will lead with that only to get to know their partner later and realize they never really got to know them at all.
@KBara4735 It’s supposed to be about getting to know each other and discovering relationship viability. Some people font’s realize that they’re trauma dumping/bonding in the hopes that “this person won’t do the same as the last one did”. It doesn’t say healed to me, just a red flag.
👀What?? I know you lying! I was today years old when I found out this wasn’t a black group. 😅💕
Another example that coming up, we just loved music no matter who the artist was.
Were there any artists who shocked you?
@ReedReads4 YouTube...derp...also just realized that the reason for the gap was they weren't revolving them as fast I thought. That slow reveal is intentional and not a tech glitch. Thanks!