TalknMyAutistic

Aussie autistic/F/34. 🌈 Not an expert, always learning 🧠

[TalknMyAutistic @TalknMyAutistic]

@JessSeaCo Not yet but I'm very much thinking of starting over on there! You there? I need to do the social media thing more. I'm working on a book but the publicity side is not my thing haha.

[TalknMyAutistic @TalknMyAutistic]

I just feel tired. Not the kind of tired that sleep helps. Just... tired. I don't really know how to explain. It's a physical tired but also emotional exhaustion. #PMDD feels a lot like #autistic burn out sometimes 😞

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@JessSeaCo Thanks for asking. I am doing... okay. My goal for next year is to really try and address the PMDD, it's just been put to the side for too long and it's very difficult to build up good time when every couple of weeks... hormones! How're you doing??

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@hi_its_annaleah Yep, so feel this! Then people don't understand why we're tired all the time or burnt out!

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@egyptianruin @adhd_teacher @ashleylynch Exactly! Still unmasking here, getting there but yeah, the judgement from others is awful when it literally has no effect on them and can have big benefits for the person stimming.

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@egyptianruin @adhd_teacher @ashleylynch Yeah, I was agreeing with you criticizing for the guys values is totally valid but I don't agree with the person above who was saying that they don't "jump around like a dipshit" which sounded very ableist to me. Sounds like encouraging people to mask which just shit!

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@shotofnovacane @egyptianruin @ashleylynch Nope. Im autistic and I work with plenty of autistic people who stim openly. Elon is shit but you're perpetuating misinformation saying autistic people are too socially anxious to do this. Autistic people are all different which is important to remember, dont use "we" use "I".

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@egyptianruin @adhd_teacher @ashleylynch 👍 Criticize him for that shit but saying anyone doing "weird" stuff like jumping up and down is actually ableist AF. Lots of people do that when they're excited, overwhelmed etc. and they're not dip shits, they're stimming. Elon is a tosser for far more important shit than this.

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@adhd_teacher @egyptianruin @ashleylynch I don't like Elon either but your comment is saying anyone "jumping up and down" is being a dip shit. You know a lot of autistic people do that right? Criticize this guy for his views and stuff but this comment of "I don't jump up and down like a dip shit" is straight up ableist.

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@RecklessMoxie @AVintenAuthor Yes. It doesn't have to escalate all the way to rape either. Sexual touching when someone is unconscious happens a lot but people only (sometimes) consider it an issue if it gets to rape. Both are wrong and there definitely needs to be more education about this.

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@AVintenAuthor I woke up frozen. Eventually moved slightly to let him know I was awake and he stopped. Everyone thought he was a saint because he "put up" with my trauma and lack of intimacy and requests to sleep separately. Idk, id rather he broke up with me than contribute to my trauma 😖

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@AVintenAuthor My ex tried this. Ironically he'd also warned me once about being drunk and passing out in my friends bed saying anything could've happened. He was supporting me through my PTSD from childhood trauma. The one night I let him sleep beside me he tried to insert his fingers.

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@galaxibrain444 I grind too. And my jaw clicks too. Hm.

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@galaxibrain444 Yes! I always say if I'm up and moving I need to get whatever I can down because once I sit, I know I'm stuck for a good while. The transitions between any activities is really really hard. Any tips 😭

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@DrCarolJasper To be honest this makes me realize I still have hope. The system has been rough and sometimes when I talk about it I know I'm being very bitter. But I don't believe things like this which I think shows I still have hope and believe there are some good eggs in the system!

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@ashleyann_atx But an innocent person was... Why is nobody mentioning that?

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@DrCarolJasper 🤣 what a joke. That makes zero sense. The mental health system is very flawed, I've got PTSD from it but I can still recognize that this is total tripe.

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@FreudandBeyond No. Friends and family (if you have them) are for trivial problems of the week. People go to counseling for all kinds of reasons; relationships, grief, big life changes, etc - none of which are "trivial".

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@LukeTurnerEsq You saying that forgiveness is the only way someone can grow makes me uncomfortable. 🤷‍♀️

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@BDStanley @sendvictorious @LukeTurnerEsq Lol no it doesn't. That's ridiculous. It was a piss poor apology too. "Sorry for being a bitch." No real acknowledgement of any of the pain she caused. So nah she doesn't deserve "recognition" 😅

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@LukeTurnerEsq @sendvictorious I think she was just setting boundaries. It's a pretty clear you're not forgiven, don't contact me again? Which is fair enough. Boundaries are important, she's obviously been doing a lot of therapy and doesn't want this person bringing up all this stuff again.