My uncle and his wife separated more than 15 years ago. There was no violence, no cheating, nothing of that sort. From what I witnessed, the whole thing seemed more spiritual than physical.
They had two children together. He took the boy, and she took the girl. They're both in university now.
He was brought back to the East last week because of health issues. He asked to see his daughter, but she refused to see him. She said she wanted nothing to do with him because he is a wicked man.
Her brother asked to see her. They met, talked, and she agreed to go back with him to see their father.
Now she doesn't want to return to her mother.
She learned the truth. Her father had been the one funding them from the very beginning, but her mother never told her.
I just don't understand why people do that. Whatever issues you have with your husband or wife should have nothing to do with the children.
If a lady smokes, she most likely drinks or is into drugs, not all the time but certain lifestyle overlap. There is also a possibility that sheโs into hookups or at least open to casual sex.
Now, does this affect how they treat you as a partner? Maybe not.
So I'm not saying you should base your decision on all of this, but if a woman smokes, drinks, maybe does drugs, and is into casual sex, what exactly are you looking for there that you canโt find in someone who doesnโt do any of those things?
And women who smoke are not even the majority, they are a tiny fraction. So why should I go for that?
And before someone comes and says they can repent and that God will wipe away their past and all of that, God is not taking away the consequences of her actions. God saves her spirit, which is what He is concerned with.
You, the partner, still have to deal with the physical reality.
By the time the consequences of that lifestyle come knocking, you will be the one there to deal with it, whether itโs daily dialysis, weekly dialysis, monthly dialysis, or other health issues that such a lifestyle may come with.
Then you will understand why choosing such a partner is not be a good decision, no matter how much you love them
This lady was dating this guy, he was a cheat, abusive, the full package. I lost count of how many times he gave her infections.
Every time she came home for the weekend, she had a sob story.
One day she showed me a picture of his house and said, "Which woman wouldn't want to live in a house like this?"
That was when I understood why she kept going back to him.
They eventually broke up for real when he married one of the girls he had been cheating on her with.
Few months later, he was back in her DM asking for the relationship to continue, and they did hook up a few times before she also met her husband.
This lady was dating this guy, he was a cheat, abusive, the full package. I lost count of how many times he gave her infections.
Every time she came home for the weekend, she had a sob story.
One day she showed me a picture of his house and said, "Which woman wouldn't want to live in a house like this?"
That was when I understood why she kept going back to him.
They eventually broke up for real when he married one of the girls he had been cheating on her with.
Few months later, he was back in her DM asking for the relationship to continue, and they did hook up a few times before she also met her husband.
I remember my guy that had issues with his girl that year.
She cheated.
The girl actually called me before my guy even did, to beg me to talk to him on her behalf.
So I asked what happened.
She told me how an ex came back to Nigeria, asked to meet, and she went. She stayed late, decided to sleep over, one thing led to another, she doesn't know how it happened and she slept with him.
I said didn't your guy bring up this same ex issue last time he noticed you guys are communicating and you said he was worried over nothing, a guy who wasn't even in Nigeria?
She said yes.
I told her I could not help her..
I don't know how it happened or I don't know what came over me is the closest they get to owning up to their shit.
When they don't want to admit they had sex with a guy, they claim it was rape. Meanwhile, it was hot fok - the kind of hot fok you want to keep recreating.
He "raped" you, but you guys are close as fvck. Hallelujah woman of Nazareth.
The funniest thing about the thought process of the average Tinubu supporter during the last election is that they genuinely believed that if Tinubu wins, they will have a better life than Obidients.
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If helping with bride price and registry means she's taking over his financial responsibility, then why doesn't helping with cooking, cleaning, and other domestic tasks mean he's taking over responsibilities traditionally assigned to her? In both cases, one partner is helping the other. Why is one called support while the other is called enabling?
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There is no evidence that Adeboye is a man of God. He's the one that said he's a man of God, God didn't confirm it. His prophecies do not come to pass so how did you know he's a man of God?
You guys should be ashamed of yourselves. Don't let the happenings and what's going on misguide o.
You dragged and disrespected a whole man of God. A very respectable and humble old man. Pastor E.A. Adeboye. It is only God that will forgive you
This reminds me of the story of Elisha in 2 Kings 2: 23 - 24. You can read it.