They weren’t lying when they said you wake up one day & just don’t care anymore 😭😭 No warning, no dramatic shit, just a quiet, almost peaceful detachment.
Y'all ever dealt with a person so manipulative and draining that you literally just give up on trying to get your point across? Because all they do is PURPOSELY try not to understand and flip it back on you?
stop waiting on nothing & mentally draining yourself just don’t say anything. why communicate when they never listen, if they don't care they just don't. and nothing you say will change that. remember those boundaries. don’t lose your sanity over mixed signals.
NO ONE TALKS ABOUT HOW DRAINING IT IS WHEN YOUR MOOD IS CONSTANTLY SWITCHING BETWEEN "KEEP GOING, IT'LL GET BETTER" AND "I CAN'T DO THIS ANYMORE I'M ABOUT TO GIVE UP"
People lack accountability, then be like "You could've just talked to me". No, I couldn't. You don't listen. You deflect. You gaslight. You make me feel like i'm the problem for bringing it up. So no, i stayed silent to protect my peace, not because I didn't want to fix.
i realized that no one, not even my mother or closest friends knows what i’m actually like in the inside of my head, and the only person who actually knows who i am is me