@doggirljesus It’s honestly the only place I can find other trans fems in my area. I’m not a discord girlie and I live in Alabama so outside of randomly clocking each other on the street I don’t have many other options
@L1ly0fth3v4l3y This is how it’s felt my entire life being the fat friend in a group of smaller people. Like stfu actually, I don’t wanna hear about how you “ballooned” up to 200 lbs
@duskcleric@solarcupcakes@supertypesoyboy@beardpandaa And in the Deep South of the US, where I’m from, facial piercings on women are considered masculine. The only time they’re considered feminine on a man is if it’s a nostril stud. That’s IT
@duskcleric@supertypesoyboy@beardpandaa You’re making a very general statement about “society” on an app that has users from nearly every culture on the planet. Where I’m from women who have facial piercings are seen as more masculine.
@supertypesoyboy@duskcleric@beardpandaa Cool, back to my point. Outward presentations of gender are entirely subjective. Piercings are not inherently feminine, and trying to box things like that into male or female is a miserable way to live.
@duskcleric@beardpandaa If your trans identity means locking yourself in a set or arbitrary social “rules” about gender expression then what was the entire point to begin with?