Pain has a face. The person you hurt is not just a number or statistics. It is a person who has to live through the brunt and take meaningful time to heal from the after effect and trauma.
One reason I barely go to peoples houses till date is this, when I was younger, had this friend that used to stay with his uncle, they were rich rich and the boy Dey sponsor our outing once once, so we used to hangout together a lot… one day, bro said I should come sleep over o, na so I leave my papa house go their house go sleep… next morning after morning devotion, the uncle said he’s looking for 100k o… sweat from the phantom realm just soak my body for early morning 🤣🤣🤣
Now they didn’t say I took it, but they made funny comments like “and money no Dey loss for this house o” and I caught my sub…
Went back home later that day and told my dad what happened at my sleepover, my dad just calmly said that I stole the money, omo I was shocked o, I told dear old daddy that I didn’t take the money o… and then my dad said something that has been etched in my mind till date “YOU LEFT YOUR COMFORT ZONE AND WENT TO THEIR HOUSE, WHATEVER THEY SAID YOU DID, YOU DID IT” and that was enough for me…. Before I come your house come pass the night ehn, you go pour libation 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm not trying to be atheistical or influence you not to pray. It is a weakness, not a flex. As a Christian, you ought to pray ceaselessly.
I just do not consciously pray. But I do if you compel me to. I usually prefer worship and thanksgiving. I'm just not comfortable with the idea of making demands in the name of prayer. Even if I have to, I end up praying for others. I just believe God is faithful enough to do what he wants to, if he wants to, and when he wants to.
However, I'm working on my prayer life. Not well enough, but I'm on it.
Privilege is such an interesting thing I often find myself thinking about. We do not ask for the life we have, and that is why I'm very mindful of it. You often find it a lot in my writing.
Last week, my cleaner told me on Monday(2 days ago) was her birthday. I asked her what age we are celebrating and she said 33. Epiphany hit me that my agemate is my cleaner. I wore a wry smile as I nodded my head and told her to remind me on Monday so she could get her gift.
I then went to my room to deal with the epiphany of privilege. In another universe, that could easily have been me.
In this generation, without an actual video tape, no woman can convince me she was raped because I know more than 95% of the time, they brought it upon themselves because they love to be victims in every scenario.
If a woman ever tells you she was once raped, ask her
• where was she raped
• around which time was she rape
• does her parents know she was raped
• is the supposed rapist in prison
You'll realize in most cases, it was at night that it happened because she stayed out late, it happened at a guy's place, her parents don't know about the rape and she never reported the incident.
At the end of the day, these bitches ain't victims.
Take women seriously at your own peril.
A student nurse at the Krobo Nursing Training College has expressed frustration with the school’s management, citing several reasons behind the students’ demonstration calling for the removal of the Principal and Dean of the institution.
[🎥: House of News]
I asked her the questions everyone was thinking… 😭 She answered every single one without holding back. The last answer genuinely caught me off guard. Would you have answered like this? 👀
A child does not have any business starting school till they are at least 4 or 5 years old.
Children should be allowed to get enough sleep so their brains can develop.
Starting school at 2 with under-developed brains is why we have people still supporting APC.
You know why I don't blame shameless women like this? This wasn't their first plan.
When they have tried other means of livelihood and it failed, they have to make use of any opportunity to cash out. Now that Elon pays even the poor, all she has to do is throw away her shame, self respect and dignity and post anything that will give her the engagement she's looking for and since the fastest way to gather engagement in Nigeria is by doing something foolish, it automatically becomes easier for the average broke Nigerian women.
This is what you get as a poor man who chose to fuck another poor woman raw and bring a child into this world and failed to provide for.
As a broke man, the next time you're thinking of fucking a woman raw, remember this could be your daughter in the future if you fail to give her a comfortable life.
The game might be brutal but it's still fair.