There’s no coming back from certain things, and I don’t think people really understand that. Some damage doesn’t get undone, and once it changes how you see someone, that’s it. Not everything deserves a second chance, no matter how sorry they are.
Something I discovered about myself is I have to feel the feelings. I know it will work out and get better, but I also need people around me who allow me to feel and be present when it’s heavy. I know I’m not my emotions, but I do need space to feel them.
People love authenticity when it looks like struggle. As long as you’re broke, hurting, or still trying to find your way, they clap for you. But the moment your authenticity comes from a place of growth, light, and evolution, it becomes a problem. Because most people only tie authenticity to hardship and poverty, not to actually evolving.
a lesson i learned this year is that a person's capacity for growth is directly linked to how much truth they can face about themselves without running away
sagittarius and aquarius placements are stereotyped as “heartless” because they’re not overly attached people.
just because they’re not overly attached and obsessive people doesn’t mean they don’t care about others, it doesn’t mean that they don’t experience love. they definitely do.
however, sagittarius & aquarius placements are demonized because they’re not the types of people to chase after others.
they’re not going to stay in friendships or relationships that they’ve outgrown and relationships that have run their course. they’re very good at setting themselves free and it makes it people mad.