I’m such a "thank you so much" typa girl because i understand that nobody is obligated to do anything for me, so i'll always appreciate the people who choose to show up for me.!
I DONT play the victim. I’ll tell you straight up why I became the villain and why somebody got the reaction they got. I believe in taking accountability for my reactions to people’s actions. And I don’t mind showing someone real quick that they need to find somebody else to play with. I don’t start problems, but I will finish them.
Liars and narcissists love acting like everyone else is the problem while they swear they did nothing wrong. Not me. I’ll tell you exactly what I did, why I did it, and how it happened.
If we date, don’t stop being you. Keep having fun, keep seeing your friends, keep chasing your goals, and keep enjoying your life. A relationship should add to your life, not take away from it. Just make sure you save time for us too.
One thing I hate at this grown age is somebody who acts like cause & effect does not exist ! Yes your actions caused this outcome ! So why are you acting surprised & playing victim ?