Lately, when I've been asking myself "Can life get any worse?" the universe excitedly chimes in "Yes!" and dumps another load of shit for me to deal with. I'm really at my wits end here.
When a person has maintained one relationship their entire life or one group of friends their entire life they don’t really learn how to interact, connect or relate with people outside of that dynamic. It really can stunt a persons growth
I hate the advice “don’t get excited over a dude too quick.” Girl be excited. If you get disappointed, feel it & bounce back. Excitement & fun is the point of dating we can’t keep diluting ourselves. Be excited without attachment bc blocking the emotion isn’t emotional maturity.