I burnt with gay lust for years.
It was my deepest, darkest secret.
I hated myself. I was ashamed of myself. And I honestly didn't have a clear sense of my own masculine identity.
The Lord set me free from all of it. He radically transformed my life by showing me my worth, healing me from shame, and restoring my manhood.
I am a free man!
He did it for me. He can do it for you!
The World: Come out of the closet and tell everyone that you have homosexual desires. Be proud.
The Bible: Confess your homosexual sin to God and find forgiveness and healing. Be humble.
"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
1 John 1:9
Jesus completely healed me of all my homosexual desires.
In walking with the Father, He counseled me in my wounds and traumas that were leading me to sexualize men in the first place. Deep down inside was a broken little boy looking for manhood in all the wrong places. I pray that all men who are in bondage to homosexual lust find the same transformative power of Jesus Christ!
He is powerful enough to set anyone free!
"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." Isaiah 41:10
So many men struggling with homosexuality have father wounds. They are sexualizing men in an attempt to find masculine love. Repent and turn to the God who loves you more than any man can. You will never find what you are looking for in homosexuality.
Side B "Christians": "My sexual desires are not sinful and I don't have to repent of them because I didn't choose them. I will live with them for the rest of my life. They are a part of who I am. It's only a sin if I engage in the behavior."
Bible: “The human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is?" Jeremiah 17:9
Side B is demonic. It keeps men in sin. It keeps men from moving into a healthy manhood whereby they get married and become fathers. It keeps men from working through the deep wounds and traumas in their story that have caused them to sexualize other men. It keeps them in a false and satanic identity of "gay." It keeps men in a victimhood mentality which is actually effeminate.
We as men must turn to the Living God and repent of our sin. We must ask Him to transform our hearts. We must be humble. We must submit to Him. We must ask Him to tell us who we are. We must ask Him to heal us from the inside out. He is good and holy. His will is to transform sons into men. His power is endless. Trust Christ for a transformed life.
The male body was not designed for "gay sex." A man was designed by God to become one flesh with his bride in marriage (Gen. 2:24). Two men were never meant to enter each other's bodies. This is unnatural and wicked. God's design for marriage between a man and a woman is good, ordered, and holy.
Manhood is not learnt in an isolated silo. Boys become men because they are taught manhood in masculine fellowship. If you didn't grow up with a strong father figure, find a local church with godly men that can teach you the way.