Look at your relationships like a business contract. If they can’t hold up their end it’s time to go! We all have personal requirements and a love language we need to sustain balance with in order for our relationships to thrive +
Soulmates are friends too, not just lovers. Your soulmates naturally recognize you, vibe with you, and align with you. They understand you, appreciate you, support you, love you, heal with you, and grow with you. They make you feel beautiful in your own skin just for being YOU.
If you make $20/ hour, that night out isn't $300, it's 15 hours of your time, or 2 days of work.
If you make $20/ hour, that car isn't $50,000, it's 2,500 hours of your time, or 357 days of work.
Framing purchases in time instead of dollars can help you make better-informed decisions with your money.
Always consider opportunity cost because time is your most valuable asset.
I warn younger girls, please do not prioritize a man in your life. Make them work to get you and keep you. Then show them how you can elevate their life. But they need to prove they’re worthy. Do not build him, do not wait for him, focus on you. Love will come on time.
a large part of growing in love is learning how to bring up problems to someone in a way they understand. productive communication is also about learning how the other best receives information. and that can take time