Human beings are primarily self serving, or in it for themselves. When you make peace with this, life becomes less disappointing. And people's behavior becomes much less personal.
We've mistaken longevity as the measure of a successful marriage.
Here's a different way to look at what makes a successful marriage (or relationship) and why the end of a relationship doesn't mean you've failed.
A THREAD ๐งต:
๐๐๐๐๐๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ๐๐๐๐๐ญ๐ญ It's time we give our kids sufficient attention, siyekele ama phone because wow ๐๐๐๐ญ๐ญ๐ญ
@dntunvme2 @KVeinFlautist ...ya'll can come for Tyra all you want but you must also remember that we kept that show on air for years. We watched it and we agreed with the judges. We also had to unlearn so much.
@MusaKhawula Konje you guys have fathers who divorced/left you the day they left your mothers. Thatโs why you act weird when other people are co parenting well ๐ฉ. Xolweni bethuna but therapy helps!
@eNCA Bheki Cele, Fikile Mbalula and Lesufi Panyaza have perfected the system of acting busy. Masquerading at its very best.
Get a strong PR team, look busy, take pictures, gunner a huge following and you are good to go.
Listen to what the โyoungโ man said to Bheki.
@fifimoeng i wish that we did not shame ourselves over our perfectly human yearnings for love. we were birthed out of love and it is love that will continue to sustain us. if love is the orbit in which our lives seem to revolve around then we will surrender to that which holds us up ๐ค