You cheated, She stayed.. You lied to her face, She Stayed.. You spoke to girls, she didn't want you near, She still stayed. And you left her because she argued too much because of the things you did?
You ever sit and think about it…and realize the only reason it lasted as long as it did is because you kept accepting things you shouldn’t have? You kept being patient. Kept understanding. Kept giving chances. Instead of choosing yourself sooner.
Y’all be bragging about what a ngga paying like that’s supposed to cancel out everything else…. whole time he paying bills AND playing in your face. Buying groceries but entertaining btches, paying rent but moving single. Baby that ain’t provision… that’s distraction. A real man don’t trade money for disrespect.
When a ngga peep you got a soft spot for him, he stop protecting your heart and start testing how much you’ll tolerate. Once he know you ain’t leaving easy, he gone do you dirty with no hesitation. Your tears turn into background noise to a mf that already comfortable hurting you
Some people enjoy inflicting mental & emotional abuse. No need to deny it. They think "head games" are particularly fun. It makes them feel superior & in control of interactions.
Their sadism isn't your fault-- or your responsibility to understand.
A woman never deserves to be lied to, emptied, dehumanized, villainized, targeted, and abused for literal years because a man was dishonest to someone else and is incapable of telling the truth or owning his actions.
the extent people will go to avoid accountability is the reason why i will always be fine with being the villain in their story. the truth is the truth regardless of how you spin it.
& another thing I will no longer be choosing the high road. I can cuss you the fuck out & still go back to being at peace. I’m not internalizing NOTHING!
I dislike a person who present themselves as solid and genuine, yet move through life manipulating others, they sell a clean image to the world while being messy and deceitful behind closed doors.
I'm finally coming to terms with the fact that as much as l wanted certain love, certain people, certain versions of my life, that just isn't my reality right now. And as painful as that is to admit, what hurts even more is realizing how close l came to losing myself trying to hold it all together. Fighting for things that didn't fight for me, pushing for things that didn't belong in my life anymore, trying to force situations that deep down I knew were slowly breaking me. And I can't do that to myself anymore. I can't keep abandoning myself just to avoid losing someone else. So if letting go means I lose people, memories, plans, or the life I thought I'd have by now, then I'm learning to be okay with that. Because at the end of all of this, I still have to live with myself. And no one talks about how hard it is to keep your head up and your heart open when you feel broken and heavy inside. But I know one thing for sure I'm my own home, my own safe place, my own constant. And I'm not losing her for anything or anyone. So whatever happens next, however life looks after this, I'll be okay because this time, I chose myself.
A n*gga can be with you all day long, sleep with you all night, tell you he loves you more than anything in the world & STILL find time to entertain the same b*tches he claims he don’t want 🥴!
Some people don’t cheat, lie, or leave because you weren’t enough.
They do it because they’ve never been capable of giving what you deserved. and your patience finally made them show it.
“But men are not allowed to express themselves.”
Yet y’all express your lust, horniness, and need to control women very strongly. But showing empathy is where the line is crossed for y’all, smh.