Author, Content Creator, VO Talent, Mind-Health Purveyor. "Soapboxโ Tweeter, ฮฃโ. Find Ur Right Tribe โค๏ธ & Mind Ur Own Energetic Beeswax โบ๏ธ. Yes Lawd ๐๐พ! โ๏ธโ๏ธ
Hey you.
I hope youโre given more peace in this season. Youโre worthy of it and I hope everything youโve been praying about gets settled in your life.
& If nobody told you lately, you deserve more ease and less stress in your life. You are seen & felt more than you know. ๐ซถ๐พโจ
Heavy at being more intentional w/ me.
Heavy at speaking my mind more.
Heavy at accepting what is these days.
Heavy at choosing my battles more attentively.
Heavy at letting go and letting God.
Heavy at knowing I did my best.
Heavy at trusting that I will always be alright.
Being estranged from family is not about love. In many cases, love is what makes it so difficult. You donโt stop loving them, you just realize the role they play in how you keep getting hurt, must end. And itโs your responsibility to end it.
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Itโs NEVER DISCUSSED because people are too busy DISMISSING it.
Itโs a world of HARD WORI to heal from all that weโve endured. I congratulate survivors! โค๏ธ I applaud supporters in a world of dismissers. ๐๐พ
People talk about how it's all sunshine and rainbows after leaving a toxic relationship. But nobody talks about how hard it is to unlearn the abuse you normalized, the mistreatment you tolerated, the toxic traits you developed, and the overthinking from being treated that way.
A black male therapist is priceless in healing & growing. I donโt miss alot of ppl (because ACCEPTANCE) but I definitely miss the clinician I had. He helped me TREMENDOUSLY & Iโll never forget the tools I gained working w/him. ๐ค
One sign of growth is when someone says something dishonest or triggering to you, instead of spending your time trying to get them to own it, or call someone else to validate how you felt hearing it, you experience it for what it is & walk away with your energy intact.
I want to say thank you to the rare few individuals in my life who have listened without judgment, spoken without prejudice โฆ and loved me without conditions.
Iโd rather live on Mars than tolerate manipulative kinship, courtship, friendship, or partnership. iUsed 2go backNforth ๐ตโ๐ซ, now iWALK AWAY. โ๐พ
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Ppl chg! Blood, historyโฆthat dont matter. MOTIVES do. Clear boundaries regulate pplโs unclear motives. Make it procedure, exempt NO1!
๐ Donโt bother spinning the block. If you didnโt plan to, well thatโs even better ๐. Looks like on THAT we have a CLEAR understanding. ๐
Be well. โค๏ธ
I used to feel like I had to explain to people how I move and why I do things different. These days I do what I do and you get it or you donโt. My life explains itself.
๐ Dont forget to cut ur grassโฆregularly. Uโll be surprised wat ur life looks like when u stop exemptn ppl for silly reasons, just keepn โem around for nothin. Uโre grantn access 2u that they never even REALLY earned. ๐๐พ
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Findn urSelf is how u lose who isnt 4u. ๐ค Be well. โค๏ธ
Glory be to God, ALL is WELL. โค๏ธ
Iโve ALWAYS deserved the BEST & finally got it when I STOPPED settling for LESS. ๐ฏ
IโM BLESSED. โบ๏ธ๐๐พ
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Peace yโall! ๐โ๐พ