I’m sorry but I’m not going through hell to keep a nigga I don’t care what it is he doing I deserve peace, love, and fly shit you hoes done fcked the game up.
I'm a lover girl, I love intimacy. I love romance. I love cute notes. I love quality time. I love giving presents. I love romantic gestures. I love small and thoughtful gifts. I love date nights. I love long, deep conversations. I love being silly together. I love hugs, holding hands. I love making memories. I love feeling secure. I love acts of service. I love reciprocating. I love love.
Girl to girl: please do NOT monitor your man. Do not look through his phone. Do not look through his things. Give that man complete freedom to do what he wants and see what happens. In the meantime, use all of that anxious energy towards anxiously building your own goals. Focus on a meal plan to hit your macros, focus on a workout routine, focus on a skin care routine, get another degree or advance your skills to make more money.
Y’all get cheated on so dmnn much that y'all started normalizing it... "every ngga gon cheat" whole time it's a MAN out here that won't even look a btch way cause he got a WOMAN/YOU
please teach your daughters that having a voice is more important than being nice. having a backbone is more important than being palatable. having standards is more important than being liked. and having self respect is more important than being chosen.
if u offer me a sincere apology & change ur behavior, I'll never bring up our past issues again. But if no apology was given and ur still repeating mistakes, u can't ask me to stop mentioning the past. The "past" is actually the present if u haven't changed.