The best thing you can give your kid(s) is a PEACEFUL home. Mine don't have to wake up to fighting & screaming. Mine not watching me get cursed out. Mine not seeing me get mistreated. Mine gets to have a HAPPY & emotionally intact mother. So if you can't give your children anything else, please understand the gift of a healthy home is good enough.❤️🫶🏾
Being a ngga BM DON’T HOLD NO WEIGHT😭😭😭 ya take that title too serious. I actually HATEEEEEEEE that I’m somebody babymother. Like do ya hear how that sound?😂
Sometimes I look at my child & think, oh… you’re the very first person who will ever know the real me without my defenses. And you love me the exact way the earth loves the rain. Instinctively, without keeping score, without asking me to be anything but yours. And that love feels like a magical place I didn’t know I was allowed to rest. And the wildest part is how my children hand me mercy like it’s nothing, like it’s air, like it’s the most natural thing in the world. A child’s love is the first mirror that doesn’t distort you.
I’m saying all of this because this morning when my daughter woke up she told me she has been practicing make a heart with her hands in her dreams. Only so she could say good morning to me with a heart & a kiss. I instantly started to cry. Children love you in ways that make you rethink every cruel thing you’ve ever believed about yourself.