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30-something lurching from one crisis to the next! Teacher (MFL, HOY), wife, mother, adopter, empath, gobshite. 3 sons, 1 adopted daughter.

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@adoptedstorks @4ofusnow Awww that’s really tough, these feelings are hard. Do you feel like resentful towards her or the whole situation? Do you think you would feel the same if Pickle hurt her? X

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@anon_adopter Yes, of course! He was trying to organise a game and was snubbed! It’s all so clear now 😂

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Apparently my toddler hit every single child in his nursery today. What an over achiever 😬😬

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@fosterdadkeith @emmalgsutton @KittyTrill Yes, I agree with you. But if it’s people making comments, rather than actual rules then it’s really hard to have complete consistency, even though we should. I completely agree that the different food expectations here is really confusing.

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@AdoptMountain @KittyTrill What’s that independent person each LAC is supposed to have called? Are they involved?

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@emmalgsutton @KittyTrill In that case, vent away! I think I am probably to solutions orientated so sorry if that came over as uncaring. I think we all agree that these rules are baffling and confusing, let alone for the kids!

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@field_erica Hugs xxx

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@adoptedstorks @4ofusnow What do you mean? Sorry, I am being thick!

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@KittyTrill @emmalgsutton I am exactly the same and keep myself up at night about similar things, it’s very hard when you can’t solve all their worries.

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@emmalgsutton @KittyTrill No, I understand that, but it’s probably impossible to get to a point where everything is fair, or seems fair. I was only concerned that you seem to be getting very anxious (which I understand) but the reality in School is that there are bound to be mistakes and discrepancies :/

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@emmalgsutton I know it’s hard, but I would pick your battles. This probably isn’t worth your precious time and energy x

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@emmalgsutton My guess would be that it’s just that one MTA imposing her personal view, rather than an official rule. I remember this a lot from when my older two were at primary!

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@4ofusnow @adoptedstorks And his brother (usually the victim) understandably does not usually accept it and will sometimes demand I retrieve apologies that I know will never come. That’s very hard! I end up cross with him then which I feel terrible about 😩
And if eldest and DD fight... you can imagine!

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@PedallingSolo It’s so good to have a friend who really understands my parenting ethos 😂😂

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@AquilaPipp1e @DoIIymarie I wish I could send him tomorrow, trust me 😂😂

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@DoIIymarie @AquilaPipp1e Hahahaha! My middle son tried to give him a talking to but there was zero remorse! He’s only Little though (she says hopefully!!!)

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@AdoptMountain Yuk. That would really upset me too.