Pregnancy can kill her.
C-sections can scar her forever.
Postpartum can destroy her mentally. But sure, keep calling it “just nine months.” Your lack of empathy is terrifying.
When I was a younger, I never understood why people cried during prayer.
But as I grew older, realized that when life hits you hard, you naturally fall to your knees, pouring out your heart to God because no one can comfort or heal you the way He does.
Most of us who didn’t “go astray” or stayed the course of being a “good child” did so because of our own convictions, not because we were beaten into submission or lived in fear. Yes, upbringing plays a role, but at some point, our own values and choices took over. Who go spoil, go spoil.