I effortlessly attract opportunities that align with my goals and aspirations.
I draw in abundance, happiness, joy and optimism with every thought and action.
I am always where I need to be and the timing of my life is perfect for me.
The universe is on my side.
I Affirm ✌️💡
Day in the life of sponsored Yaribaboon with low self-esteem!!!
One day, everyone will see my taking care of the home as the most difficult job in the world and reward me for it bountifully!!!
Cleanliness is next to Godliness!!!
DATING 101!!!
NOT EVERYONE IS READY TO BUILD AN HONOURABLE LIFE WITH YOU!!!
If a man strongly believes that the way to make it in life is through gambling, yahoo-yahoo or any dishonest means of making money, think carefully before committing to him. More like, fling him away!!!
Likewise, If a woman tells you she is materialistic and her idea of getting the things she wants, making money or living a better life depends mainly on dating certain men (commodifying her love or being an OS), never ignore the signs and never commit to her!!!
There is nothing wrong with wanting money, a comfortable life or the finer things in life. We all want to live better. The real question is how far is someone willing to go to get what they want?!
A person’s true character is revealed not only by what they desire but also by the choices they make to achieve those desires.
Any man who depends on fraud instead of honest work will eventually put his partner and family at risk, just as any woman who sees relationships mainly as a way to get money and material things is not interested in building a family with love.
Before you give someone your heart, loyalty, time, money and commitment, pay attention to their mindset. Ask yourself these questions
Can this person work honestly for what they want?!
Do they understand deferred gratification?!
Do they have values that align with mine?!
Will they stand with me when life becomes difficult, or are they only interested in what they can gain?!
Are they interested in building a future together, or do they see relationships as a shortcut to success?!
Will they not use my children for rituals or sleep with manager to get promoted?!
Never allow greed, materialism, beauty, attraction, sweet words or temporary happiness to blind you to someone’s true character.
Love is important, but love without shared values will always become a painful experience. You cannot build a peaceful future with someone whose lifestyle and lack of conscience constantly threatens your peace, trust, finances or dignity.
Choose a partner who wants to build with you, not someone who wants to use you. Choose a reasonable human being who understands the value of hard work, honesty, responsibility, loyalty and mutual sacrifice.
Your partner’s character and choices will affect your life peace, your finances, your family and your future. That is why it is expedient that you choose wisely.
Love with your heart, but commit with your eyes open!!!
Leave yahoo boys for money-sexual whores and leave money-sexual whores for yahoo boys!!!
Do not build yourself to be a reasonable human being only to yoke with soulless animals!!!!
This Afternoon a lady asked me to introduce her to man.
Her: “Good afternoon Sir, thank you for this opportunity. I’m 28, and I want a man who is at least 10 years older than me. I really like older men.”
Me: “Okay, no problem. If I introduce you to a 39-year-old man, what exactly would you be bringing to the table?”
Her: “Sir, I’m beautiful, I’m very homely and I have good character. That’s why I prefer older men, they know how to take care of their women”
Me: “You do not know me, that is the reason you are confidently telling me this”
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As you should already know, the average woman wants an older man because she expects him to provide, protect and take care of her. But when asked what she would bring to the relationship, her answer is beauty, taking care, good character and other intangible nonsense.
Women pursue significantly older men primarily for the financial security, stability and the lifestyle they believe those men can provide. They may call it preference, but the truth is they have no love in their heart to give and real question is whether they are prepared to offer the same level of commitment, care and support in return?! Your guess is as good as mine!!!
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If you are a man deliberately pursuing women who are significantly younger than you, understand that being needed for what you provide is not the same as being loved for who you are (your essence). And that in the long run, you will not be able to rate any woman who is completely dependent on you and even more sadly, such women will very likely accuse you of stealing their childhood, being very controlling and will japa when life happens.
And if you are a woman deliberately pursuing older men because you expect them to finance your lifestyle and take care of you, understand that financial provision does not automatically come with respect, emotional security or genuine love. You may enjoy being pampered, but you must not be ready for toxic control, unequal power or being treated like the money-sexual whore that you are.
EVERY CHOICE HAS CONSEQUENCES!!!
At the end of the day, there are no victims in love!!!!
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From the accident, she has fractures in her hand, leg, and pelvic region. The doctor said the surgery will cost about ₦5 million. It is extensive and will be done in two phases.
First they will operate on her hand and leg. When she recovers from that, they will do the pelvic region.
It has been a painful experience. We have already spent so much on drugs and medications just to keep her stable this far. The pain is still there every day.
A lot of you have followed this from the day of the accident. You have seen the updates. You know what this has been like.
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If you are a man read this!!!
One of the best things you can do for yourself as a man is to set clear rules and boundaries early!!!
Mood swings…
Taking your anger out on me…
Comparing me to other men…
Expecting me to suffer just because you, as my woman, are suffering…
These are things you must address before you decide to take any woman seriously!!!
Point 4 is the main point of this post!!!
1 No grown woman should wake up in a bad mood and decide to make it your problem. If she is not feeling good, she can take her space and handle her day without making you walk on eggshells. Her bad mood is not your responsibility to carry. The first time this happens, make your position clear!!!
2 Never accept a woman taking her anger out on you because of someone else’s actions. If her boss treats her badly at work, that gives her no right to treat you badly at home. She knows how to control herself around people like her father, her boss, her pastor and other me. she respects, so you deserve that same respect. Her bad day is not your fault and you should never be forced to pay for it!!!
3 Never accept a woman comparing you to another man or telling you to behave like someone else’s man/husband. If she does it, make it clear that you will not tolerate that disrespect. If she keeps doing it, fling her away, such relationship is not worth keeping!!!
4 Your woman’s stress does not automatically have to become your stress. If work puts pressure on you, that does not give you the right to make her life harder. The same rule applies to her. If she has to stay up at night or spend more time caring for the baby, that does not mean both of you must suffer unnecessarily. A relationship should be about sharing responsibilities, not spreading misery. If one person is struggling, the other should help, not create more problems.
You should ALWAYS discuss your expectations, your boundaries and how you expect to be treated in any relationship.
But talking is not enough. Make sure you are with a woman who listens, respects your judgment, and is willing to work with you to build a peaceful relationship!!!
Never normalize disrespect and stupid behavior in a relationship or marriage!!!
EVERTON - CHELSEA
Everton built in a 4-3-3. Chelsea applied a high, man-to-man press with a central rotation.
Everton attacked in a 4-3-3, with full-backs and wingers positioned in different vertical lines. Chelsea’s mid and low block operated as a zonal 4-4-2.
Chelsea built up in a 4-2-3-1. Everton applied a high, man-to-man press, featuring a rotation among the players on the left flank.
Chelsea attacked in a 2-2-6 structure, with full-backs and wingers in different vertical lines, while Henderson and Caicedo dropped deep to manage the progression of play. Everton’s mid and low block was a 4-2-3-1, employing a mix of zonal and man-marking.
Everton performed better in the first half, characterized by their aggression and verticality, while Chelsea were stronger in the second half, thanks to their dominance in duels and control of the tempo.
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She has also been looking for ways to divorce me because all I do is play video games all day and watch her struggle. So, please help and patronize her as a girl’s girl that you are!!!
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Whoever scheduled Chelsea vs Everton as an early kickoff today deserves a PAY RAISE!
At least Chelsea might drop points today, Either a Loss or a draw. i’m seated and ready for the show. 🥱😂
🚨 Jose Mourinho on Xabi Alonso’s work at Chelsea after their 2–0 victory over Everton:
“People will look at the score and say Chelsea won comfortably. But you must understand the opponent before you appreciate the result.
Everton came into this game unbeaten in the Premier League. They’d already shown against Manchester United that even when you think you have them beaten, they can come back.
They make you work. They make you uncomfortable. And if you become impatient, they are very happy to let you make the mistake.
So for me, the interesting thing was not simply that Chelsea scored twice. It was how little Everton were allowed to turn the match into the kind of game they wanted.
I know Xabi. I worked with him at Real Madrid. He was one of those players who could make you feel he had already watched the match before everybody else arrived.
Sometimes I would be explaining something, and he would be looking at me very seriously.
I’d say, ‘Xabi, do you disagree?’
He’d say, ‘No, mister. I was thinking about what happens if they change.’
And I’d think, good. At least somebody is worrying about the second problem before we’ve finished discussing the first.
You see a little of that in his Chelsea team.
They don’t all run towards the ball. They understand where the next pass should go. When one player moves, another is already covering the space he’s left. That’s not an accident. That’s training.
And look at the selection. He has talented players, big names, players who all want to start. That can become a problem for a manager very quickly.
But he’s picking a team, not collecting famous names.
Neto starts and scores twice. Henderson gives them control. The attacking players have freedom, but there is structure behind them. When Chelsea lose possession, they don’t suddenly look like 11 strangers who’ve met for the first time.
That’s what I mean when I say you can see the players believe in the manager.
Belief isn’t just celebrating with him when you score. It’s a forward tracking back in the 75th minute because he trusts that the work matters. It’s a midfielder staying in position when he would rather join the attack.
I remember at Madrid, Xabi could spend an entire match telling people where to stand. I used to think, one day he’ll be doing this from the touchline and nobody will be able to escape him.
Now he’s doing it at Chelsea.
And what impressed me was the patience. At half-time it was 0–0. A less secure team might have started forcing things. Chelsea came out, found the opening almost immediately, and then managed the game.
That tells me the players weren’t panicking. They trusted what they’d prepared.
Of course, it’s one match. Xabi knows better than anyone that winning a game doesn’t make you a genius, and losing the next one doesn’t mean you’ve forgotten football.
But Chelsea supporters should enjoy what they’re seeing.
You can buy good players. Chelsea have done that many times.
Making those players look like they belong to the same team? That is the manager’s work. And Xabi is doing it very well.”