Karma is a BITCH. the SAME way you made somebody feel . it'll come BACK on you. maybe 20 times HARDER. better be careful what you do to people. ain't no fun when it's YOU
Stop calling it communication issues when he understands his boss, his friends, and strangers on the internet just fine. He only becomes “confused” when the conversation requires him to take responsibility and change behavior.
He heard you. He just didn’t respect the consequence. Women don’t get resentful because men “don’t understand”. They get resentful because men understand perfectly and keep choosing themselves anyway.
When people don’t consider you in the same way you consider them, let them go. There’s actually so many people in the world that can match your energy and love you the way you love.
i used to think being deeply liked was a bonus. now i think it’s the bare minimum.
i don’t want to spend years trying to convince someone to be excited about me, i don’t want to constantly wonder where i stand, i don’t want affection that arrives in rationed portions so nobody looks too interested.
if we’re together, like me properly,please not in a performative way, not in a desperate way.
in the way where i never have to question whether i’m wanted. because one thing i’ve learned is that a lot of relationship problems disappear when two people are genuinely crazy about each other.
You can spend 2 years with the same person, adjust your your routine to fit theirs, get to a point where their mood affects your mood and they will wake up one day and say they don’t love you anymore and walk away from your life and There is nothing you can do about it
i texted her, "how was your day today?" and she sent me a 7 minute voice note telling me everything..
and that basically sums up the kind of person i want by my side. stop normalizing disinterest.
I need you to understand. If the relationship only works when you stay silent, suppress your feelings, and avoid setting boundaries, you're not being loved. You're being controlled.