If you offer me a sincere apology and change your behavior, I'll never bring up our past issues again. But if no apology was given and you're still repeating mistakes, you can't ask me to stop mentioning the past. The past is actually the present if you haven't changed.
Physical intimacy isn’t always about sex. Sometimes it’s about feeling less alone. It’s about finding comfort in someone’s presence, sharing quiet moments, and being reminded that you’re worthy of love, care, and affection.
I think many gay guys don’t actually want sex all the time. Sometimes we just open the apps because we’re craving human connection. Deep down, we just want someone to cuddle with, watch a movie, talk until we fall asleep, hold hands, and feel safe in someone’s arms for a while.