Can’t totally fault people who resort to dating apps or matchmaking pages to find partners.
Once you miss university.
Miss NYSC.
Miss church gatherings or Islamic gatherings.
Don’t want to date your work colleagues.
Neighbor is a no go area.
Your best bet is either through social media, family and friends matchmaking, arranged marriage or you download your partner from heaven. If you’re an introvert that means you will sleep there.
This girl is offering N1 million to any woman who can convincingly explain to her how marriage benefits men
Bro, I saw thousands of comments, and not more than 5 comments were from women. They all went mute. Not one feminist could explain it to her
She deserves her flowers 🌺
Women no real, walahi 😂
Na everyday I dey see new thing for this internet.
The annoying part is that some useless men have validated this opinion to her.
This man is cancelling his traditional marriage because his wife received a 3 million naira gift from her ex who is outside the country. The ex sent the money as a wedding gift.
When the man saw the alert on her phone, he asked her about it and she explained truthfully. The man ordered her to send the money back and also asked her to block the ex boyfriend, but the lady refused. She said it was just a gift and besides, the ex is not in the country and she has not seen him in years.
For me, I don’t see this as enough reason to cancel a wedding, although the man may be feeling insecure and does not trust the woman.
NO, you CANNOT walk 10,000 steps daily, get 8 hours of sleep, cook every night, clean every day, take care of a family, make time for your own hobbies, and still be productive at work every day. This is not just propaganda, it is rubbısh. Free yourself from it.
1. Women began complaining about "unpaid labour" just as men started taking on more household chores.
2. Women began divorcing their husbands at unprecedented rates just as men became more involved in childcare.
3. Birth rates fell below replacement level just as men increasingly took on traditionally female roles.
Heterosexual attraction thrives, among other things, on polarity.
Men do men things, women do women things.
That is the dynamic that maximises attraction.
"I change nappies and contribute significantly to childcare" sounds noble and commendable in theory.
But in practice, it kills a woman's attraction for her man and transforms the marriage from one of complementary masculine and feminine energies into something passionless and devoid of romantic tension.
Again, attraction depends on polarity. Where polarity is weak, attraction inevitably suffers.
Women won't tell you this because they are shortsighted and don't have a clue of what is good for them long term.
If something looks cute, makes them feel good in the moment or satisfies an immediate need, they will demand it, regardless of any adverse structural effects it may have overtime.
But I will tell you, men who have tried that experiment over a long enough period will tell you...
That when gender roles are blurred, attraction inevitably, inexorably, inescably suffers.
Do not mistake what sounds good, for what actually works.
You have been warned
As a Muslim, there's something that genuinely bothers me.
Millions of Muslims live in Christian majority countries, build mosques, preach Islam publicly, distribute Qur'ans, open halal businesses, and demand religious freedom,and rightly so.
Some even call for aspects of Shariah to be accommodated in the societies they've moved to.
Yet in some Muslim majority countries, Christians cannot openly preach the Gospel, build churches freely, or practice their faith without restrictions.
Why?
If we demand religious freedom for ourselves, we should be willing to grant it to others.
Truth does not need censorship.
If Islam is the truth, it has nothing to fear from a church, a Bible, or a Christian preacher.
You can't demand tolerance and freedom for Muslims abroad while denying the same freedoms to others at home.
The double standard needs to be called out.
I’ve been saying this for some time now.
Modern men do far more domestic chores and help their wives at home yet modern women are unhappier, depressed and the divorce rates are far higher than ever before.
So it simply proves all that “equality” nonsense does not work.
Modern dads are helping out at home more than ever, @lymanstoneky finds.
Married dads of young children in 1965 did, on average, less than 10 hours a week of child care or help around the house. Dads in 2024 contributed nearly 30 hours a week, an increase of approximately 300%.
CORRECT ME IF I'M WRONG BUT, As I turn 43 this year, I have realised, as a man, no one cares about you. Not your wife. Not your family. Not your friends. Not your workmates. Nobody. People act like they care, but deep down, they don't. You are on your own. Always on your own.
Feminists treat sex as though it were as meaningless as a handshake. They encourage women to sleep around with random strangers and even sell their bodies. But suddenly sex is so serious and even traumatizing when the man they married wants it. Totally insane.
@mz_sookiee@Ghost_042042@talk2veee Agreed with every other thing you’ve been saying.
But your claim that 80% of women are breadwinners is not true. It’s totally false.
@pacino120@talk2veee@IamEriOluwa Your parents did 50/50?
So you are saying your father cooked, cleaned, bathed you as kids, handle half of the childcare and domestic chores while your mother provided by paying half rent, school fees, bought half the cars, etc?