I’m an average guy, Who’s life is his children. I’m not into your method of trading. I don’t want to see nudes, I’m happy to have friendly conversation
@ReclaimD1 Yea. I was not thinking about it being a big deal until The “I usually get paid” comment. Now I understand. I guess you should ask yourself this question. Were you thinking of your audience while making that request? Or were you really into him only.
Listen. The answer to your question is in the first 3 words.
HELP. You obviously have concern and feel this not right.
Your Boyfriend: Don’t buy a house together with anyone less than your spouse. Period.
Buying a house together is a huge commitment. A financial one and relational one. If the relational commitment isn’t made first, don’t jump into a financial commitment on this scale.
But, if you want to do it anyhow, Order of business is, if it’s your monetary contribution, and/or credit. You should be on the title. Period.
Not all men are fat. But a lot are working to provide, or just struggling to provide while their focus is on their family, their wives are out seeking the next best thing.
Self love is important. Turning back, and embracing the past will cause tripping over one’s future.
I haven’t gone sled riding in 30 years. I finally had an opportunity to share real childhood memories with my kids in the winter time. Went to visit family and the area had lots of snow.