My daughter daycare called my phone and said we had a Code Red and all the kids were scared but your daughter... So I asked " ight so what's the problem ? " she gonna say it's not a problem but when we asked your daughter why she wasn't scared she told us " nothing gonna happen too us... Cuz my DADDY gonna kill everybody if i don't make it home “🥴🤣 😈
Avoidants be like: "we didn't work out"
no, YOU didn't work out you disappeared the second communication, accountability or emotional maturity was required
but sure, let's call it "we didn't work out" you weak ass mf.
I’ve tasted going back to an ex, and I’ve tasted trying to fix a relationship before it breaks off. I highly recommend focusing on your career, praying to God every day, and going to sleep before 9 PM.
No disrespect to anyone, but God please don't send me another partner who doesn't know how to communicate, take accountability, or emotionally show up. I don't want a partner who's still battling their own issues, avoiding healing, depressed, or emotionally unavailable and refusing help. I don't want a partner who can't stand firm, speak with clarity, or take control of their own life.
I never want a man to settle for me.
Go find your dream woman, and if you can’t find her, don’t use me to fill the gap. I refuse to be a placeholder, a backup plan, or a settling point.
I want a love that’s intentional. A man who’s clingy in the best way, passionate, reassuring, God-fearing, and fully locked in on me. Someone who chooses me every day, not because I’m available, but because I’m exactly who he wants.
If I’m not your dream woman, that’s okay. Just don’t use me as a substitute for the one you truly desire.
I really owe myself an apology. For staying in places where I felt I wasn't wanted, but chose to hold on anyway. For trying to fix bonds that were already dead. For putting people first who would never have done the same for me. I knew better, but I kept giving chances. I kept showing up for folks who didn't appreciate me. So now I'm holding myself accountable, because I should.
Stop allowing people to have control over your peace. They didn’t call? Get some rest. They didn’t text back? Put your phone away and enjoy your day. They left you on read? Keep moving forward. They didn’t make an effort? Give the same energy you receive. Never let your happiness depend on someone else’s attention, consistency, or presence.