God is so merciful in geographical distribution.
Imagine a government that can't repair Agbor-Benin road having to deal with the aftermath of an earthquake.
If it quacks like a duck, it's definitely a duck.
Men are simple and don't have much time doing deep analysis of what a babe is. The way men perceive most women is interesting.
For example, if prostitutes latch on to a certain fashion trend, but you're not a prostitute and you get on that fashion train, the average man sees you as one. It's that simple. Women can't understand this. It's why there is always friction whem men try to stop their wives from wearing certain outfits.
One of my female friends has a friend who's seeking for a serious man as a single mother. Last week, she posted herself in a ridiculously transparent gown. I told my female friend, "Your friend is joking. Na so you go bag serious man?" My friend couldn't understand it. I had to share several podcasts of men talking about that topic.
Just now, I saw an old video of Rubi Rose wearing that exact same dress. She was twerking in it. Imagine some of the men already saw Rubi Rose - and knowing who she is - do you think they'll take her seriously? Now, if my babe can wear what Rubi Rose wears, perhaps they're the same. You can say men are shallow, but the game is the game.
When you see a young man buy a G-wagon, do you ever think “Oh he probably got a 1st class in school”? No
First thought is he’s a yahoo boy, because we believe education can’t get a young man wealth, that’s how you know school is a scam!
Good women are generally very lowkey and not that socially visible. The reason you think they don't exist is because they are protecting themselves and trying to avoid unwanted attention. The trash is loud and plentiful, but there are more beautiful feminine souls than you think.
The modern man cries that there are no good women left.
The modern woman screams that there are no good men.
Continue.
Stay single or get married. Neither choice will save you from who you are.
Time is an auditor that eventually collects it's bill.
If you stay single out of pride and cynicism, time charges you with isolation.
If you marry a fool out of desperation and poor vetting, time charges you with misery and lost leverage.
Make your decision but you pay the price.
Selah!