Hardest pill I swallow this year was learning that no matter how good you could be to someone, no matter how much you love them, they can and they will turn they back on you and there’s absolutely nothing you can do but sûćk it up and keep moving forward.
"i overplayed my part" "i cared too much" No. you were simply being you, gentle and thoughtful. someone was using you for their own benefit and you're trying to understand how you messed it up? you didn't. they didn't value you the way you valued them, and that's never your fault
if u offer me a sincere apology & change ur behavior, I'll never bring up our past issues again. But if no apology was given and ur still repeating mistakes, u can't ask me to stop mentioning the past. The "past" is actually the present if u haven't changed.
trust me I’m not STUPID. I know when I’m being lied to, when weird shit going on, when somebody don’t fwm & just pretending, & when someone trynna play with me. I just play my role cause I love watching it all unfold to prove that I’ve been right the whole time. 💯
When God warns you about someone, DO NOT ignore it. It doesn’t matter how long you’ve knowing them. The Holy Spirit sees what you don’t. Accept the truth God is showing you, and do it quickly. Your obedience activates His protection over you.
I feel like once women realize that they don’t have to go thru hell and back wit a ngga or suffer just to get that happy ending or the best version of him, the world gone shift. Cus let’s be real, did that man have to go through hell and back with you to get the best version of you? NOPE cause you already came as your best self ! Yall gotta stop thinking struggle builds love, & stop tryna heal mfs who not ready to face they own pain 💯