Lebonharon

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[Lebonharon @ThatCotonouBoy]

This year, we’re going to go through this book together. It contains a meditation for each day. I’ll post them daily.
See you soon.

[Worldly @WorldlyHQ]

House maiden set him free to his liberation

[Interior Design Architecture @Interiorarchdes]

A brilliant way to choose your kitchen style!!!!

[Lebonharon @ThatCotonouBoy]

@HapinessAjayi @VikyInsights Jesus!!!

[Lebonharon @ThatCotonouBoy]

@vivadaraa When a man sets standards for himself and encourages other men to do the same, those who know they don’t qualify label it as “hate for women.” It is well. 😅

[Dax @thatsdax]

Happy Father’s Day🙏🏾♥️

[FIFA @FIFAcom]

The mum of Cabo Verde goalkeeper Vozinha sends a message of thanks to football fans worldwide! 💙

🗣️ "Strength and courage, Blue Sharks!" - her message to Cabo Verde ahead of attending their match against Uruguay in Miami.

[Dax @thatsdax]

Happy Father’s Day🙏🏾♥️ #fathersday

[Lebonharon @ThatCotonouBoy]

June 21st: Take a walk

Today encourages individuals to nourish themselves and their minds, solve problems, and find creative solutions through the act of walking.

[Lebonharon @ThatCotonouBoy]

June 20th: Calm is contagious

Today’s stoic emphasizes the importance of maintaining a calm demeanor and the power of leadership in instilling calmness in others. It is a reminder to be the calm person in every situation, not the one who causes chaos or panic.

[Neo Officiall @neo_officialll]

Even the sex they believe they bring to the table is not even guaranteed and they will constantly shame you for having sexual needs while comparing you to their exes and previous body counts.

You are supposed to meet up with the standards other men and of course sex toys set for them or else you are a two minutes man who is bad in bed and doesn't satisfy her.

Ask the squatters to at least clean up the house they do not contribute to the rent nor contributed a dime to the construction, they will throw tantrums and call it slavery or unpaid labour.

She never contributes a dime to the marriage even when she works and earns just because you are the man and you are supposed to provide. I mean her money is her money after all and your own money is for everyone.

Don't even get me started on their numerous health issues that you must put up with or you are not a rEaL and KiNd mAn.

All these sacrifices you are making doesn't even guarantee her fidelity because she can still be cheating with her exes or be cheating with a colleague at work with a very high possibility of pinning a bastard on you.

You are also not guaranteed peace and respect because it is in their very chaotic nature to shit-test you and cross boundaries occasionally just to know if you are still worthy of leading them.

They are always in unnecessary competition with the women who have long been in your life before they started existing in your life and you must choose them and put them first. Heck, some of them even wish your mother was dead.

Let's not also forget that their loyalty and commitment is not guaranteed because they can up and leave or outrightly start cheating at the first sign of any financial difficulty.

They can move into your house and start squatting with you while laying claim to everything you amassed before you met them all in the name of marriage but you will be disrespected if you ever sleep over in their own house not to talk of moving in.

How have men been putting up with this arrangement where they give so much and get very little in return?. Why is any sane man still getting into marriage in this generation and why are the ones attempting it at all not setting better standards for themselves and choosing women who will limit as much of these excesses and liabilities as possible?.

What exactly is the average man benefitting from marriage?. That is one question no woman on earth has been able to answer.

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

You are the one who would make the move.

You are the one who would plan the date.

You are the one who would fund it.

If you are stupid enough, you are the one who will kneel for a ring you used your hard earned money to get to be accepted.

You are the one who will fund the wedding and do the runaround.

You are the one who will stay up at night, every night, figuring how to make money to perform your responsibilities as a man as society won’t spare you anything.

You are the one the world holds responsible for the security and safety of the home.

You are the one who does the rigorous work in and outside the home. You are the electrician, the Doctor, the plumber, the security man, the one with the big memory never to forget birthdays and every little detail or you face trouble and nagging or silent treatment.

You are the one who bears responsibility for her family difficulties. It is not written but it is expected.

On bed, you do the work during mekwe. You are the one who has to adjust to her body language/mood when she wants a child. At best, you BOTH want a child and you BOTH have sex.

When the child is born, it is “HER CHILD” and if she gets upset, she takes HER CHILD/CHILDREN with her (if they are actually yours anyway).

Then if she doesn’t leave with the children, she reminds you of all she went through “to make you a father” while all you had to do was NOTHING. Just a penis. She carried for 9 months. Pushed. Breastfed. Had insomnia. Body changes. All that sacrifice just to make you a Dad cos it was only you who wanted a child and wanted to marry. She did you a favour for which you owe her your life and servitude from eternity unto all eternity.

If you talk too much, she gaslights you, waits till the children grow up and make them see how “absent” you were in their upbringing and she, the heroine.

Possible loneliness and aloneness in your old age. A futile journey you really didn’t have to embark on.

[Bober_smart @Bober_smart]

A 19-year-old student from China, Zhang Wei, developed an AI radar and sold it to Hong Kong for $550,000

He created it using Claude, spending just $20 and a month on development

He walked into the Hong Kong administration office with a flash drive and asked for just 5 minutes of their time. 30 minutes later, he walked out with a check for $550,000

The code, connected to a camera, detects speed in real time. If the speed exceeds the limit, Claude takes a video clip and identifies the owner by the car's license plate. The video and the fine are then automatically sent to the owner's email address

Unlike a conventional radar that only takes a photo and doesn't always work, this AI radar eliminates disputes because it captures video and makes the process fully autonomous by sending out the fines on its own

The article includes the ready-to-use configurations.

[Lebonharon @ThatCotonouBoy]

June 20th: Calm is contagious

Today’s stoic emphasizes the importance of maintaining a calm demeanor and the power of leadership in instilling calmness in others. It is a reminder to be the calm person in every situation, not the one who causes chaos or panic.

[Lebonharon @ThatCotonouBoy]

June 19th: Stay focused on the present

The Daily Stoic for June 19th emphasizes the importance of staying focused on the present. The quote by Marcus Aurelius encourages individuals not to let their reflection on the whole sweep of life crush them.

[Lebonharon @ThatCotonouBoy]

June 19th: Stay focused on the present

The Daily Stoic for June 19th emphasizes the importance of staying focused on the present. The quote by Marcus Aurelius encourages individuals not to let their reflection on the whole sweep of life crush them.

[Lebonharon @ThatCotonouBoy]

June 18th: Prepared and active

Whatever happens today, let it find us prepared and active: ready for problems, ready for difficulties, ready for people to behave in disappointing or confusing ways, ready to accept and make it work for us.
#Dailystoic

[Ayo @Biebele01]

@ThatCotonouBoy @jon_d_doe "Don't put all your eggs in 1 basket"
Na the motto

[Lebonharon @ThatCotonouBoy]

@Biebele01 @jon_d_doe I honestly don’t know why women like to keep their options open.
There’s a popular saying in French: “If you believe they’ll be plan B, rest assured your plan A will not work out. Your plan B should be to make your plan A work.”

[Lebonharon @ThatCotonouBoy]

June 18th: Prepared and active

Whatever happens today, let it find us prepared and active: ready for problems, ready for difficulties, ready for people to behave in disappointing or confusing ways, ready to accept and make it work for us.
#Dailystoic

[Lebonharon @ThatCotonouBoy]

June 17th: Offense or defense?

Seneca’s wisdom suggests that true security lies not in conquering fortune but in withdrawing from its grip. Philosophy equips us to withstand life’s unpredictability without being consumed by it.
#Dailystoic

[Lebonharon @ThatCotonouBoy]

June 17th: Offense or defense?

Seneca’s wisdom suggests that true security lies not in conquering fortune but in withdrawing from its grip. Philosophy equips us to withstand life’s unpredictability without being consumed by it.
#Dailystoic

[Lebonharon @ThatCotonouBoy]

June 16th: No shame in needing help

Don’t be ashamed of needing help. You have a duty to fulfill just like a soldier on the wall of battle. So what if you are injured and can’t climb up without another soldier’s help?
#Dailystoic #Stoicism

[CNN @CNN]

The US State Department is trying to help get Cape Verde goalkeeper Vozinha’s mother to the United States to watch her son play in the World Cup, a State Department official said. https://t.co/VlsPDHmJZl

[Lebonharon @ThatCotonouBoy]

June 16th: No shame in needing help

Don’t be ashamed of needing help. You have a duty to fulfill just like a soldier on the wall of battle. So what if you are injured and can’t climb up without another soldier’s help?
#Dailystoic #Stoicism

[Lebonharon @ThatCotonouBoy]

June 15th: Listening accomplishes more than speaking

This meditation discusses the importance of listening and the wisdom that comes from being open to what others say. It emphasizes that true understanding and virtue often come from the ability to listen rather than speak.