@Kaylavosss You mean when you realize that you were wrong, and all the guys were right when they told you that there’s rarely if ever such thing as a purely platonic friendship between a man and a woman?
The pain of realizing that you should have listened to men?
100% correct.
But it requires the guy to actually be a catch. And she must also feel safe that she can keep him by acting right.
Most guys fail this horribly.
Women shouldn’t feel secure in a marriage.
She should know that if she gets out of line, she’s out the door, and that her husband is a catch who can replace her.
A woman should consistently try to attract and please her husband to maintain her privileged position as his wife.