“communication is the key” but so is a sense of understanding. if i tell you something, and you’re not willing to see where i’m coming from, then what’s the point of telling you anything.
you gotta make the decision for people who are unsure about you bc they never will. they'll care for you, love you, and respect you when it's convenient for them & then they'll use you, ignore you and leave you guessing when they're done w you. decide you're worth more than that.