YALL NEED TO UNDERSTAND THIS ‼️🗣️ I DONT care if we friends, family, in a relationship, associates, or whatever title you THINK you got. I match energy every time. I fck with pple who genuinely fcks with me, claim who claims me, speak to who speaks to me, & show love to who shows love to me. I'm not pressed to force bonds with NOBODY idgaf. I watch people choose who they wanna be close to, love who they wanna love, & support who they wanna support... & I do the EXACT same. PERIOD !! Stay tf away from me if you don't fw me fr 💯
a man gone be who he is, no matter what you bring to him. you can be beautiful, solid, have your own, carry yourself right… and still end up dealing with somebody who just not built to handle you. you can’t love a man into acting right or upgrade his mindset by being a better woman. so when he fumble you, don’t take that sht personal like you lacking… sometimes that’s just his character showing. the best thing you can do is fall all the way back and let him be exactly who he been. stop chasing, stop trying to prove your worth, stop thinking you can change the outcome. the right one not gone need to be ran down, corrected, or convinced… he gone show up right without all that.
YOU DON'T REALIZE HOW MUCH SOMEONE HURT YOU UNTIL YOU FINALLY SIT IN SILENCE. no distractions, no texting, no running back... just you and your thoughts replaying everything you ignored. all the times you settled, stayed quiet, and accepted things that never sat right with your spirit. it hit different when you stop making excuses for people and start seeing it for what it really was. but that's where the healing start... when you choose yourself, even if it hurt to let them go.