bro to bro: if you like skinnier girls, get yourself a skinny girl. if you like thicker girls, get yourself a thick girl. if you like fitness girls, get yourself a fit girl. you are entitled to your own preferences.
but what you are not going to do bro, is date a girl who is not your type and make her feel inferior to other girls.
Now every time someone calls me strong, my heart breaks because I don’t want to be the strong one anymore. I don’t want to have situations that make people take a look at how I’m handling it and call me strong. I want a different kind of strength.
My challenge is that I am not an inquisitive friend. I do not ask questions about things you have not voluntarily shared. Because of this, it may sometimes seem as though I do not care. And this happens in all my relationships 🤭😌
I just want my whole nervous system to finally rest in 2026. I want my heart to stop racing every day, I want to get out of that constant fight or flight mode, and I just want real peace. I’m begging for a year where my spirit can breathe, my mind can slow down, and my life finally feels gentle again. 2026, please be the year that brings calm, softness, and stability back into my life.
So guys, raising kids is basically 80% giving validation and celebrating everything they do. Especially toddlers. It’s a constant loop of: ‘Good job!’ … ‘Well done!’ … ‘Yaaaay!’ … ‘Big boy!’ … plus endless clapping and cheering repeat x 1000 times a day.
So much work 😂♥️
Inoba kuthanda uthetha apha kum but I genuinely don’t believe that sharing things with my people will jinx it. I’m a firm believer of “if it is mine then I’m going to get it.”