Sometimes you don't realize you're traumatized and there's something wrong with you until years later when someone happens to hear your story and is shocked by what you went through, how you normalized it, and what you suppressed and tolerated.
May you attract a divine partner who adores every single side of you. The warrior, the gentle, the loving, the sexy, the chilled, the quiet, the talkative, the vulnerable, the bold, the sensitive, the nurturing, and the powerful — the absolute whole wonderful being you are.
y’all don’t know how many people actually go through shit & never speak on it .. just imagine how heavy a mf heart be but will do any & everything to make sure everybody around them straight
Many assume that if you’re peaceful you must have had an easy life. Like baby, I went to war for this peace. I drug myself through dark nights of the soul for this peace. I shed every single thing that could go and then some for this peace. There’s been nothing easy about it.
ya'll way too comfortable with disrespecting / mistreating people and just expecting them to"get over it" without holding yourself accountable. y'all mess up genuine people simply because your pride is too big to give a decent apology followed by corrective action and ways to fix it.🗣️🩶
hardest pill to swallow is realizing people DO NOT CARE. they’ll hurt you & really go on about their lives. not even slightly affected about what they did to you & how you feel. Regardless if it’s friendships, relationships, or family.