This country makes you worried about things you shouldn’t even have to think about.
Why should electricity be stressing me this much mehn.
The country forces stagnation on you.
You go think say you get high self-esteem until you hold line for mall because of network wahala. Na then you go thank your stars for your moniepoint card.
The orientation I have always had about marriage is consistent and interesting.
There’s no scenario in my life where I will marry a woman who thinks, “His money is our money and my money is mine.”
There’s no scenario where my wife will be the only one doing house chores, especially cooking. Matter of fact, I know I will be the person who cooks the most when I get married. We’ll outsource the chores we can and do the ones we can’t.
Taking care of the kids? It is a parental obligation. Babysitting my own child is my responsibility.
This is one of the reasons I don’t involve myself in a whole lot of marital and relationship conversations here. I see marriage as a partnership, strictly. There’s no scenario where I want my partner to worship me, and vice versa. You be my guy, my friend, and my wife. Why you dey kneel down to serve me food?
Why you go marry person wey dey fear you or you dey fear?
And no, respect and fear are not the same thing. Because it is very easy for you people to misconstrue words.