MelodyFreelance

Narcisstic Abuse Life Recovery Coach - Specializing in covert abuse tactics used by mothers, boyfriends, and toxic friends

[MelodyFreelance @TheEmpathsCafe]

It's okay if you fall down and lose your spark. It's just o.k. You are still worthy and you are not alone!

[MelodyFreelance @TheEmpathsCafe]

Spent a day with my narcissistic mother...nothing ever changes..except me. I'm doing fabulous!

[MelodyFreelance @TheEmpathsCafe]

2 Lessons...
1. If someone (and I mean anyone) shows you who they really are...believe them the 1st time. 2.Who they are doesn't have to change who you are.

[MelodyFreelance @TheEmpathsCafe]

I asked God a question. I then expected the answer while taking a 30 minute drive and my take away is...you are not alone. #LetThereBeLight

[MelodyFreelance @TheEmpathsCafe]

Weak boundaries invite people to cross them...put down the pencil and sharpie that shit! #narcissisticabuse

[MelodyFreelance @TheEmpathsCafe]

How someone treats when they think they don't need you anymore is very telling. And sometimes what it tells you is the most heartbreaking news you'll ever receive. Stay strong. And decide who you want to be going forward.

[MelodyFreelance @TheEmpathsCafe]

My best advice to anyone else surrounded by narcissists. #1 Put your financial welfare above their needs. #2 Distance yourself from them as often as you can. #3 Take a trip to a place so beautiful it hits you right in the chest and steals your breath away. Rinse and repeat!

[MelodyFreelance @TheEmpathsCafe]

If you tell a narcissist that you have just been to the most beautiful place you've ever seen they will pretend to share in your excitement. Later, they will tell someone else that you've never been anywhere. So they could take you on a trip to an outhouse and you'd love it too.

[MelodyFreelance @TheEmpathsCafe]

There is an upside to finding out you are surrounded by narcissists. You can plan your escape.

[MelodyFreelance @TheEmpathsCafe]

You flew into a rage. Oh NO!!! Does that make you a narcissist or just someone tired of fighting the narcissist?

[MelodyFreelance @TheEmpathsCafe]

You have the right to discern the behavior of another person. It's not judging. It's not black and white thinking (labeling someone as all good or all bad). It's the natural evolution of someone who is finally seeing the truth about another person.

[Rashawnda Dunbar, MBA 🌹 @RashawndaDunbar]

🎶🎵Don’t worry about a thing, ‘cause every little thing is gonna be alright! 🎶🎵

[Narcissistic Support @narcsupport101]

Profound

[MelodyFreelance @TheEmpathsCafe]

@SoulFreeing1111 Also your kind response also made my day. So you helped me today too!

[MelodyFreelance @TheEmpathsCafe]

@SoulFreeing1111 You are so welcome!

[MelodyFreelance @TheEmpathsCafe]

@SoulFreeing1111 Part 11- And remember! You are not alone! This community cares. Wishing you brighter days, quiet bells and lots of future happiness!!

[MelodyFreelance @TheEmpathsCafe]

@SoulFreeing1111 Part 10 -And laugh when you can. Find things that are so funny they break through the pain and cause even a slight smile to form on your face. And know that it's o.k. too if you can't smile right now. Don't judge yourself for having a perfectly normal reaction to abusive behavior