Love isn't enough for me anymore. I need you to respect me, I need you to support me. I need you to reassure me, I need to know you won't give up on me. I need you to value me. I need you to be gentle with me. I need to feel safe with you so I can be the softest version of meโกโก
Iโm no bitch trauma dump friend. Hoes only like to be on your line when they unhappy & going through it. I get a bitch out my face the moment i peep it cause when they get right, they in everybody face who didnโt gaf about them or was dogging they ass out.
Yโall call it young and dumb. I call it being intentional & not having a roster because I actually be liking the person. If I like you, I actually like you. Iโm not the type to fw different people.. I be wanting one person and something real ๐คท๐ฝโโ๏ธ
December feels like a victory lap for me. I survived, adjusted, pivoted, I handled business and I kept going. Iโm entering this last month with peace, confidence, and zero fear for whatโs next ๐ค
i donโt beat up the old me. i love her, i understand her and i know exactly why she did what she did.. nobody can hold the old me over my head or use ME against ME because without her i wouldnโt be who i am today. this is me
Having a high sex drive but also not liking casual sex because you can't have sex with someone you don't share an emotional connection with,is such an ongoing frustration! because you have no choice but to wait for someone you truly connect with to feel that pleasure.
"i overplayed my part" "i cared too much" No. you were simply being you, gentle and thoughtful. someone was using you for their own benefit and you're trying to understand how you messed it up? you didn't. they didn't value you the way you valued them, and that's never your fault