@jon_d_doe Boss abeg leave this kind talk. There is nothing sensible about a young girl that is sleeping with a married man. I for one can never marry such a woman...
I received an inheritance of almost ₦35 million in cash from my late father. My husband knew about the entire process, so when the money came, he sat me down and asked what I planned to do with it.
I told him I wanted to buy land, buy a car, register for my master's degree, and invest the rest in my business.
He became offended and asked, "So where do I come in as your husband? What do I get?"
I was genuinely confused, so I told him I didn't understand. He said I should forget about it. I continued making plans for the land and the car.
He stayed quiet and simply watched me. Then one day, he woke me up and said he didn't know I was this stupid. He said I had a husband and such a huge amount of money, yet I couldn't entrust it to him. He asked what impression I was trying to give people.
I was shocked. I asked him a simple question: "You expect me to hand over the money my father worked so hard for and left for me just because you are my husband?"
He flared up. The àŕgum£nt became so h£àted that he almost b£àt me. He told me to prepare myself for whatever happened next because he couldn't stay married to a woman who was not submissive. He said he would bring another woman into the house—one who would listen to him and respect him.
A few days later, his parents showed up at our home without informing me. In fact, I had just returned from work when I saw them waiting.
They spent hours preaching to me, insisting that I should transfer the entire inheritance to my husband. They said their family would never forgive me for such disobedience. My mother-in-law added that she had been b£gg!ng her son not to marry another woman because she believed I would eventually listen to her.
I felt extremely ùncomfortàble because it felt like an àmbùsh. I agreed with them and promised that I would transfer the money the following morning.
That evening, I carried my baby downstairs, pŕ£tend!ng I wanted to buy something. Instead, I left for a friend's house and switched off my phone.
Two days later, my mother came to my friend's house and stayed to help care for my son while I returned to work.
About a month later, I found a suitable apartment and paid for it.
I went back to my husband's house while he was at work and packed my belongings and my son's belongings. I also took every single item I had bought with my own money. That was when I realized I had purchased almost everything in the house, including our bed, kitchen appliances, television, and many other household items.
Ironically, my husband earned far more than I did, yet I was the one who spent the most. Looking back, I realized he had been freeloading off me.
I settled into my new home over the weekend. On Tuesday, while I was at work, the police came to arŕ£st me.
My boss accompanied me to the police station. My husband claimed that everything I had taken belonged to him and demanded that I prove ownership. However, he couldn't provide any evidence that the items were his.
One of my colleagues went to my office and brought my cooperative savings scheme records. Every item I bought had been purchased through my office cooperative, with every single payment deducted directly from my salary.
The following week, I served him with divorce papers.
That was when he started sending me endless messages, saying he couldn't live without me and that he had only thŕ£atened me because he wanted me to become more submissive.
We're now in court.
I'm done.
Come Nigeria , give woman belle, make sure say, yes na your pikin
Go America remarry white woman wey no want pikin
Every 5yrs , come back to Nigeria check up on your pikin
When he’s approaching 16, come back and bond with him,
Make plans to relocate him abroad for his university
He’ll love you like mad when he hears such news.
Remember his mother had been cheating so she no really be topic of conversation, Na Nigerian woman she be,
Nigerian men who like to fuck peoples baby mama will take care of her.
So like I was saying & talking about important things,
Take care of your pikin.
@Zayyad_Yazeed You stupid people always hate people who are different. You label them and call them names that they don't even answer. You call them rude, prideful and all sort of nonsense. You guys should try minding your business sometimes. It's not everybody that wants to associate
I hate this nonsense of besmirching the character of women that chose to be chaste or virgins, just to promote the assumed character worthiness of those that sleep around.
Yes, prior sexual experience does not make you automatically a bad person unworthy of marriage. But the forced claim that chaste women will do worse or are doing worse, is a trait of foolish people. Does sexual experience impose character worthiness on people?
Dr. Zo is a foolish person and he is definitely not a good friend to the person seeking advice from him. Marital advice that is focused on just getting the person married rather than the person marrying right, is a foolish one.
@FlexGmic@jekins27919@jon_d_doe Make una dey decieve una selves una go learn. Una think say na only man cheating dey pain ahbi? Shey the man was probably cheating on his wife just to prove that other women desire him as well or to show dominance? Na shey go tire una rapper last last.
One of the best sex experience I ever had was in a car with a girl I met at a club with my friends, she said she was a model we exchanged instagram handles and I saw her pictures. The pictures made me wanting to smash so I ask her to get high with me, we drank and gist then she asked if I came with a car, I said yes and quickly collected my friend’s car key and we went into the car. I asked her where are we going to she just smiled and unzipped my trousers
@jamalfarida41 @freakin_snow This people self. Make I put mouth wey I take dey worship God and chop food for your Toto? Toto wey another man done also put prick. God no go gree!