A few things to consider here. First, if he has to get up and go to work so that you can stay home with the baby, yes, he needs to sleep. If you are nursing, you’re going to be up all night to keep your milk supply up. Nursing a newborn is a 24/7 job. That’s just the way it goes. This is why I support mothers staying home. Trying to do all this while having a full-time job is a nightmare. Also, motherhood is not meant to be something only the mother and father deal with. Mothers historically had their own mothers, sisters, and the other women in their lives to help them with things like this. It’s not all supposed to get dumped on the husband. He has other very important functions that he needs to be able to perform in order to support his family. I think expecting husbands to share equally in newborn duties is ridiculous and not in the best interest of most mothers. A little help here and there? Sure. Expecting him to do 50%? Not reasonable if you still want him to be the protector and provider. We came up with this 50-50 equal parenting stuff when we pushed mothers into the workforce. The truth is that things will equal out overtime but they are not going to be 50-50 at all times through all stages. Mothers put in the most work on the front end of the child’s life. By the time the child reaches the age of reason, the fathers start taking over a lot more of the discipline and other duties, especially with sons. They also bear a lot of other burdens that mothers never will, including being the breadwinner. It equals out over the long haul. This is why I think the strict egalitarian view is damaging and set up unrealistic expectations for couples.
Men LOVE hoes. Men hate when OTHER MEN know they love hoes. Because society tells them it’s not okay. If more men were more confident in admitting what they truly like/want, instead of this performative patriarchy, the world would be a better place.
The amount of people who have no idea how Google Ai works is crazy. “So you gone believe Ai without real research??”
All you gotta do is click the source and read 😂 I forgot… reading is a struggle for you mf’s 🤣
The Morris twins said there were times they showed up to games hungover
“I had plenty of those where I'm walking in the game. Lights way brighter than it was before. I'm just like, holy. I seen three baskets.”
(🎥 @TheMorrisCode2 / h/t @TheClipsCentral )
The reason government programs are so inefficient is that, unlike a commercial company, the feedback loop for improvement is broken, because they have a state-mandated monopoly and can’t go out of business if customers are unhappy.
No matter how bad the service is at your DMV (sorry to pick on DMVs), you still have to use your DMV, because it’s a monopoly.
Shaggy and Scooby were high all the time, driving a flower child van. Daphne and Free were sneaking off to go fuck every chance they got. Calling Scooby Doo solely a children’s cartoon is a bit of a stretch.