i immediately go silent when something upsets or hurts me. it's a coping mechanism i have developed over time. instead of expressing my anger or frustration, i simply withdraw and try to process my emotions in private.
I don’t play victim at all.. I’ll tell you straight up why I’m painted as the villain and exactly how someone gained that response. I take full accountability for how I react to disrespect.
Can’t nobody ever gaslight me into thinking I’m a bad person. I have my ways & I have my days, but I’m solid & my love is real & genuine every step of the way.
STAY CLEAR of the people who don’t value the small sacrifices you make… like spending money you barely have, showing up when you’re tired, giving advice, being a listening ear, carrying their problems, or being the one who checks in first.
I’ve come to terms with the fact that I really am allowed to feel however I want to feel about any situation, without anyone else having to understand why I feel the way I do.
It’s yours truly bday this weekend and imma be so happy to leave my twenties in the past. I’ve learned so much about myself during this era but I’m ready for what’s next. 🙏🏻🙏🏻