The Kitay Effect

Special needs therapist • Passionate about helping children with developmental & learning differences thrive | Advocate for inclusion & support.

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Many people think only of autism when they hear “special needs.” But there are many conditions where children may need extra support. Here’s a quick look at a few:

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@TechnicalBben Ouch!

[DEE ❤ @Olami_deeEbony]

A lady in my church served in the choir for years.

She never missed rehearsals, midweek services, or church programs. Everyone knew her.

Then she got pregnant for a guy in our church.

His family refused the relationship because she didn't go to university. At one point, the guy even denied the pregnancy.

The church removed her from the choir and made her sit at the back during services. She endured months of whispers, judgment, and public shame until the pregnancy became obvious.

She fell into depression and eventually stopped coming to church.

She later gave birth to a beautiful baby boy.

A few people who saw the baby told the guy's family that he looked exactly like their son. That's when they came to see the child for themselves.

After seeing him, they wanted to take the baby from her. She refused.

They got angry and told her they wouldn't support her financially.

Two months later, the baby died.

Not one member of the church visited her.

She lost her mental stability. It was her neighbours who helped get her to a psychiatric hospital.

Today she's doing better, but she no longer goes to church. She parties, goes to clubs, and lives a completely different life.

Ironically, some of the same people who abandoned her now criticize her lifestyle.

Sometimes people don't leave the church because they hate God.

They leave because the people who claimed to represent Him broke them first.

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@ThrillaRilla369 No. What if he loses his job?

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@ossaivictor1_ Registry with a handful of people, church blessings and take out packs to guests.

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@oku_yungx Yes.

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@Thebiglade That's fine.

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@joyfulheart86 @GbengaWemimo It would be really nice to meet them.

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@maxvayshia

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@joyfulheart86 @GbengaWemimo Chai, there are still better men like this???

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@Kingprince006 Nigeria is not gone.
Do you even know the gravity of what your first sentence means?
Yes, things are not right but Nigeria is not gone and it won't be gone because it "goes' what happens to all of us,where will you be and where will we all be, for those of us that can Japa

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@Row_Haastrup 😃😃😃😃

[Black_Melanin🥰 @itz_taser]

I went to Stanbic IBTC bank today to make enquiry about their investment packages. Apparently they are one of the best when it comes to investments.

I met the security man inside and I explained what I wanted to do, he dialed a number and asked me to speak to the woman, according to him, he said she’s the manager.

I spoke to her and she explained everything to me and told me to come to her office, and I told her I’m already at their office and she told me no, that I should come to UBA bank to meet her.

So apparently, she works in UBA but the security man who works in Stanbic IBTC is promoting another bank and is redirecting customers to meet her.

The thing has been disturbing me since and I’m wondering why someone will behave like that.

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@GodsgreatG You pray, or listen to worship songs.

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@educatedtug01 Beans and dodo

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@drstellanyanzi 🥰🥰

[Lilyallly❤️🇬🇧 @lilyally98]

Better go and get your degrees up as a woman.

Stop posturing for people who don’t care about you.

Your ability to cook or clean is useless in the real world unless you re making money with it.

GO TO SCHOOL

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@osemagnum Jesus! Wait, what???

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@Prince_dc21_ @SirDavidBent If it was her biological 5 year old child, will she treat them this same way?
He’s a baby for heaven’s sake. A baby!!!

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Every child’s progress looks different.
Small setbacks do not erase growth.
What matters is consistency over time.