some people haven’t healed and thats not your fault. you can pour all the love in the world into them but they’ll never see it. it will feel like pouring water into a cup with holes. you’ll lose yourself trying to make them notice you.
Unfortunately, I do want a provider. I do want a protector. I do want a leader. I do want a dominant man. I do want emotional maturity and effective communication. I do want mental stability. I do want to be spoiled. I do want self awareness. I do want clingy, obsessed and safe. I do want someone who chooses me every time. And nobody is going to make me feel bad for wanting those things in a partner.
You know exactly what you want, yet you are waiting on a decision from a partner who is staring at a major crossroads. They feel the heavy pressure to level up, but they are deeply resisting the real-world responsibilities of a committed relationship.