hey so just so everyone knows, seeing headmates as separate people isnt "anti recovery" because we're not symptoms to be recovered from. we're, on some level, people. and if you cant get out of your ass long enough to see that MAYBE seeing us as a mere pest to be recovered from+
this is how they talk about cis women with slightly androgynous features now, thanks to the culture war on trans ppl. it's further proof that transphobia is downstream from misogyny.