Stop putting your life on everybody else’s timeline. You don't have to be killing it when everybody else is killing it. Celebrate others until it is your time.
When deciding to change your life, it may seem weird to people who benefited from you staying the same. But that is just a sign that you are walking in wisdom!
Romans 8:28-30
And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who[a] have been called according to his purpose. For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters. And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified;