The Lusakas

We are The Lusakas

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Show grace towards a couple going through a difficult season. Relationships aren’t always going to have picture perfect moments. Don’t spread the story, show them respect by letting them handle it in private.

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Morning Fam!

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Hei, we just uploaded the third video of our The Story of... series. We had such a fun time talking about OUR RELATIONSHIP & sharing our story. Drop a comment on the video and let us know what story you think we should tell next.

https://t.co/Z7WuC9oWgN

#TheLusakas

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We are starting a new series called 'The Story of' on our YouTube page. Follow this link to subscribe to our YouTube channel so you don't miss anything.

https://t.co/Te2ar8HNcx

#TheLusakas #TheStoryOf

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@KalengaKamwendo That's right! It's all you need guy 😂.

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One of the best things we did for our relationship was to allow it to be unique. The temptation in a relationship is to build a relationship that looks like one we have admired, but what works for others may not work for you.

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Neither of us see a problem here.👀
Do you?

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Underneath the romance, we are friends. There are moments when what either one of us needs is the support of a friend, and we are able to be that for each other. When what the other needs from us is to just be quiet and listen and to offer encouragement then that is what we do.

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One thing that we are blessed to have in our relationship is a sense of security. We have built and nurtured an environment in which we both feel safe. This has been important because we understand that our spouse is present in our most vulnerable moments.

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There’s a level of humility that’s required to build a strong relationship and a strong marriage. It’s a level that requires you to deliberately position yourself as a student. We work because we’ve taken the time to learn each other.

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Finding the right person also means being the right person. We are happy together because we went through the process of self-preparation. Once that is clear, it will be much easier to find your right-hand mate.

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The right time to be in a relationship.
What needs to be in place for you to say you're NOW ready to be with someone?

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My mum wanted to come with me on my drive so I told her to go put on her shoes and then I left. I did it for us y'all.

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@kattleyaOrkd LoL. Will do.

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We are planning to do an indoor movie night over the long weekend. (Doing our part to avoid Covid-19). Any recommendations from y'all on what movie we should watch?

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For movie night this weekend we decided to see ‘Fatherhood’. One of us cried.👀 No mention of who but pretty sure you can guess.

⭐️We would rate this movie 3.5 out of 5.

Thanks for the recommendation Fam! Now what to watch next? 🤔

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@kattleyaOrkd LoL. Say less. Mr Lusaka will locate it.

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@suwimpondela Hahahahaha. These things can be arranged for nice people.

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@suwimpondela For Trinah's nostalgia, we may end up seeing it soon.

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@kattleyaOrkd Where can we find these?

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@gEOmusiwa The Tomorrow War must be something. You're the second person to recommend that. We must see it.

Trolls World Tour is a favourite in this house. We even know the songs.

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@ErasmusMweene Man, we heard a really bad review that put us off that movie. Is it really good?