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half human, half magic 💫

[🦀🍁🍂 @TheMatriache]

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@Max_Mofo Wow 😍

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@KhayeBhengu Then say "NO" ❤️

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Ibe isithini yona ihourly rate ye over time when you hired me to clean your townhouse & now I am chopping cabbage to feed 135 people in the scorching sun in Mntuzuma hey?

[patrick jane. 💜 @aluluthooooo]

Overtime yona andiqondi niyayibhatala shame.

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@Cinnamon_Petals Sorry. Sounds far & hot 🫣

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Rage baiting myself by watching married at first sight again 🙏🏽

[🦀🍁🍂 @TheMatriache]

I felt a bit lost after her passing & my brother moving to SK- looking for people to advocate for me or protect me with the same fierceness, then I was like "ohh I have to do this myself".

I'm not as peacey and diplomatic as she was but please, you will NOT play in my face🙏🏽

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My grandmother thought so higly of me, protected the integrity of my personhood so fiercely since I went into her primary care at 8yrs old.

It imparted something in me about my worth that no person/ relations could ever take away-might forget now & again....But I return to me💫

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@grapevine_za Well Martin also had the time of his life apparently & he's the one encouraging all the outfit searching😭

So you will take all of them. Your girl was being so difficult also, no wanting to participate in activities, just walking around for 2hrs 😭✋🏽

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My family is discussing outfits for next year's comicon.

I had such a terrible time there 🫠

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@Mnix27 They called him a mad man, jonga ngoku 🤷🏽‍♀️

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You all fought Rasta tooth and nail when he was telling you that Makoti = Maak ons tea

Now you are defending building rent a makoti services out your helpers because the tea you're required to make 24/7 is too much 😭✋🏽

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@Name1sN0T And that is all! Now imagine you feel the need to appease but it is also at the expense of another woman because really 5months after giving birth how much domestic labour & child caring can one person handle?

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It was probably 2013/14 when this happened. My daughger was 2/3yrs old.

My grandmother sent my aunt to meet me halfway and I went home to spend the rest of my Christmas holiday there. Never went back 🙏🏽🥺

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@DrRebrand new moms take care of the kids(or are placed in one space). Toddlers &slightly older kids play where the men are seated(safety from umlilo).

That is why ndafounela my grandmother crying that I want to go home when I realised I was making a fire with a baby on my back kulamzi✋🏽

[Dr Thabang @Thabang_Tooi]

Nikhohlakele guys that’s it. You can discourse until your fingers fall off but oksalayo NIKHOHLAKELE!!!! “White people do it all the time” la ikutlwa mara?

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@mnt383 Precisely, the woman you hired to look after 2 kids/ clean your three bedroomed house should also not be asked to cater to tons of people with cooking/ chopping/ serving either whether paid or not. The scope of work isn't the same.

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If your boss asked you to go to her/his home after work to do duties outside of your scope of work would you prefer to go home & be unpaid for that evening?

[Zahr🌷 @Zanele_929]

Quick question, would you prefer to go home & be unpaid for that weekend?

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@crazythatoo Try the milk? Salon500 usually has bundle specials for Mizani products, take a lot was also running a special recently

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@crazythatoo @RealLifeGold I find moisturizers weigh down my hair so I don't use them at all.
I have a short pixie, which requires heat a few times of the week. The milk is for that and and the oil for my roots and hairline.

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@FayFay_M But money is not a problem mos, isn't the helper is gonna get overtime for out of scope work and also get travel insurance incase something happens? 🤭

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Those are limitations I practise everywhere. I am not a slave bathong 😭✋🏽

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Lied.

I went back 4 or so years later to introduce my son a few months after he was born.

Kuyasetywenzwa ekhaya, my father has life stock too so umsebenzi awupheli. Never have women been expected to work alone, I work 6/7am-12pm latest because I cant stand the heat.