Miss Cate

Soft Femdom/Findom. Bi. Chubby. You’ll beg me to stop playing my games. Age verified. $20 Tribute REQUIRED. Game tribute: $10. C/A $CateHollings1.

[Miss Cate @TheMissGames]

What is SSC, RACK, and PRICK? This quick article spells each one out for you new subs and new Dommes. These acronyms are important to know in a place where we use abbreviations all the time.

Be informed.

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[Miss Cate @TheMissGames]

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[Miss Cate @TheMissGames]

I’m going to be out for quite some time. I don’t know how long. I had a family emergency come up and some personal health concerns as well.

I will not give up. Iwill die on the hill of protecting those I love.

I got called a pit bull once.

Watch what happens when it comes out.

[Miss Cate @TheMissGames]

I will no longer be taking gifts from my Amazon Wishlist.

If you want to know why, ask this guy…

He purchased, got what he wanted, EXPECTED me to be at his beck and call without further payment. Here it is, well over a week from delivery and nothing still.

@addy_james10

[Miss Cate @TheMissGames]

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[𝓥𝓪𝓷𝓲𝓽𝔂 ❤️‍🔥 @wannabespoiled]

I wanna talk about demanding what you deserve. And I’m not referring to a few bratty posts on the timeline to attract subs or direct statements about what you want. I’m talking about fully and truly knowing what you deserve. Your actions and thoughts embody that unwavering belief. When you feel so strongly about it that you’re unwilling to compromise or tolerate any behavior that deviates from your standards.

In this space, sometimes it’s difficult to say no when you’re getting what you want - money. Still accepting $5 just because it adds up, responding to subs that message without tribute hoping it’ll lead to submission, overlooking disrespect because it’s a sub that sends a lot. It’s hard.

A few subs have consistently not met my personal expectations, leaving Me disappointed. And I know every dynamic is different, I do. But can you see why someone would be frustrated if you had conversations prior about financial limitations and expectations, and subs still ghost or only send when convenient for them? Although I sometimes play into fantasy about going broke for Me, I find that I’m pretty reasonable when it comes to subs’ financial situations. And I get that you send what you can. But if you can no longer add value to my life, it only makes sense to remove you from it.

I don’t know which Dommes need to hear this but it’s ok to put yourself first. It’s hard to cut somebody off, especially when you’ve had a good D/s relationship thus far. But the moment that they no longer treat you the way you deserve is when you need to consider letting go.

If you made it this far, thanks for listening to my rant. Sometimes it’s nice to just get on here and express how I feel, especially when there’s a lot to say lol. Sometimes I take comfort in knowing that I’m not alone in feeling a certain way about things.

Anyway, giving subs one last opportunity to serve on Valentine’s Day but otherwise, I’ll be reevaluating if your contributions to my life are worth keeping you in mine. This applies to all subs following my page whether you’ve sent or not. I hope you make the right decision before I decide for you.

[Victoria @lockedinatrix]

Let me let you in on a secret. Small sends are always welcome.

The issue arises when coffee senders think they deserve to be rewarded, or receive the same level of attention as a “whale sub.”

Financial domination is a privilege.
Do your part to contribute, and be grateful.

[I love Femdoms @billysams7]

Making sure her shoes are clean before stepping into the car

[WildBlueHeart @WildBlueHeart_]

🜾∘•Pet Boys•∘🜾

[DM _ { s } @DOMME_slave_SM]

Addicted to feet! 😈

#DM
#slave

[Miss Cate @TheMissGames]

I’m heading to bed. I need to watch some crime shows to get my fix.

Someone needs to buy me coffee for the morning. 💸

Findom

[Miss Cate @TheMissGames]

@Kristinaboun Articulately stated. Thanks!

[Miss Cate @TheMissGames]

Here’s the reality of what being a Findom IS and ISN’T for those subs who don’t know.

YOU WORSHIP THE WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS WITHOUT AN EXPECTATION OF SOMETHING IN RETURN.

You want all those other little things she isn’t…PAY.

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[Miss Cate @TheMissGames]

While this is a bit dated, it gets my point across from my last tweet.

“Findom: What it is, and what it isn’t” by Emelia Smith
https://t.co/O6zKwI7TTt

Findom paypig finsub cashcow slave loser

[Miss Cate @TheMissGames]

I am so wiped out from grocery shopping. I’m going to go take a nap.

[Dominatrix Rin ❤️‍🔥 The Blasphemy Queen @sfDomme]

Banks: “We can’t have sex workers OUT EARNING everyday people. It’s INDECENT”
Last I checked sex workers aren’t destroying the environment, the economy and lobbying against humans rights. We work much harder than you do and we make people happy

Anyhow, bank with a credit union

[Miss Cate @TheMissGames]

judgement. I make mistakes. Even in the dynamic.

But, I do my best as a Domme (regardless of which one I am with them) to make sure they are safe, cared for, and protected.

That is my job.

There are days when I reflect back and find this to be truly humbling.

[Miss Cate @TheMissGames]

I may be hard on my subs and hold the bar high, but that doesn’t mean I’m not passionate about making them better in their own lives. They have wants, needs, and desires that will help them to flourish.

It’s my job (Findom/Femdomme) to make that happen.

It is also my job to be

[Miss Cate @TheMissGames]

the person they turn to when things aren’t the best. To where they need the help to make it through their difficult times.

When they have questions about life that trips them up, it is me who listens and gives them the best guidance I can.

I am not without flaws and bad