"A man who is truly single will post you back without flinching. A man who hesitates, makes excuses or asks you to 'wait' is already answering the question you didn't even ask yet."
If your boyfriend is over 35 years old, please post your pictures with him and tag him on all social media platforms, saying:
"The LOML, I can't wait to do forever with you".
If he's married, his wife will see it.
Or someone that knows his wife will see it.
End.
@jon_d_doe "This challenge will expose more husbands in the next 48 hours than EFCC has exposed in a year. Nigerian Twitter detective work never disappoints."
@The_othercircle@_pauliegee Thank you very much for the correction.
I was just trying to point out to the person that it is not adultery but a situation she found herself in.
That's rape as you have said it.
You have said it all
Nobody talks about how exhausting it is to be the stable one in a relationship.
Always the one calming things down.
Always the one apologizing first.
Always the one checking in.
Always the one keeping it together.
At some point the stable one gets tired.
And when they finally leave, everyone is shocked.
Stability is not the same as being okay.
Check on your strong ones.
@pst_iren The man is just speaking from a place of little knowledge and self centeredness.
Does he know the trauma the woman ia going through in the hands of the bandits, it is for better for worse in marriage and it is not as if she cheated on him with another man.
Situations occurs
"A woman who only knows how to receive will drain a man slowly and call it his responsibility. By the time he realizes what's happening he's exhausted, broke and somehow still the villain of her story."
Some men are suffering in silence because they married a woman who only knows how to receive, not how to support.
Marriage is teamwork, not a sponsorship program.
If she can’t build with you, she will break you. 💀👌
@VikyInsights "A woman who only knows how to receive will drain a man slowly and call it his responsibility. By the time he realizes what's happening he's exhausted, broke and somehow still the villain of her story."
"Kneeling beside your husband saying 'Lord open my womb' while the pill is actively closing it is not faith. That is a theatrical production with God as the audience."
@Wizarab10 "Kneeling beside your husband saying 'Lord open my womb' while the pill is actively closing it is not faith. That is a theatrical production with God as the audience."
@mayorde4you2 "This is what happens when you underestimate people based on their vehicle. That man has a savings system, a community accountability structure and more financial discipline than most people with degrees and salaries combined."
@peculiarchichii That’s not a rule, it’s a narrative. Plenty of men marry after 40 and actually do better than those who rushed early.
“Might” is doing a lot of work in that sentence. Life doesn’t follow social media timelines.
True, Time doesn’t guarantee wisdom, Preparation does.
Marriage doesn’t reward delay or speed. It reflects decisions, not timing.
At this point, marriage isn’t about timing. It’s about luck, prayer, and common sense 😭