there's no coming back from certain things, and i don't think people realize how deep that goes, some moments change you so permanently that no amount of apology can reverse it, saying sorry won't bring back the person i was before this
I’ll never put myself through dating somebody who shuts down, withdraws, and leaves you to deal with all the emotional damage they cause. That shit will have you mentally exhausted. Avoidants want access without accountability, closeness without commitment, and somebody who’ll keep loving them while they do the bare minimum. NEVER AGAIN.
Men be really sitting up here saying they not going to just give it out and spend money on a female. But, your roster shows that’s literally all you did to keep a female who didn’t really fw you around🤨. Make it make sense. Just silly.
Don’t come to me about what females did to you in the past. Idgaf. Niggas be fake venting and then turn around trying to treat you the same way they claimed they got treated😭. Gtfoh
no matter how much you be there for a mf, that shit still get overlooked & unappreciated. be there for yaself, cause at the end of the day nobody gon look out for you like you
Best advice I can give anybody right now is to make sure you got your own and always do what's best for you. This a cold world we living in, Families ain't family no more and friends ain't friends. Everybody scream real until it's actually time to show it. So get your own and pray you never get in the position to where you have to depend on nobody . People will fail you over and over but your faith will get you there every time!!
Sometimes I accidentally accept the bare minimum trying to be considerate of what others are going through & that is a habit I need to let go of expeditiously