Height matters way less than guys think.
If it didn’t, every 6’4 dude would be happily married and none of them would be getting left on read. That’s not the world we live in.
Girls care more about vibe & aura, not inches.
How you carry yourself.
How unbothered you are.
How you’re not auditioning for her approval.
Short guy with confidence > tall guy with anxiety every single time.
Blaming height is just cope! Tell me I’m wrong…
CONFIDENCE TIP:
Get addicted to rejection.
Ask for the promotion. Shoot your shot & don’t stop.
Most people are paralyzed by a “no” that hasn’t even happened yet.
Rejection doesn’t kill confidence…
avoiding it does.
The guys winning just collect more Ls and haters daily…
Game shouldn’t be something you “activate” over and over again.
Shouldn’t be something contrived that you do for the sake of her validation/ or because it was the “right” move.
When you genuinely master game, you no longer “game”.
You just “are”.
Like when you’re learning basketball form.
Initially feels awkward or that you’re “trying hard” to shoot.
You’re still “separate” from the action itself, considering context, overthinking.
But when you become like Steph Curry, there’s no longer “thinking” about shooting anymore.
He just fires.
And feels good about it.
Game should be learned the exact same way.
What you really want is the behavior lock at the end of the day.
That point where you are literally subconscious and operating through desire.
You should be at a point where -
You “tease” not because it was the “right time” to.
But because you yourself wanted to.
You felt the pull to.
As primal as wanting to laugh.
And when you shoot the shot, it just lands.
Social calibration still there, but invisible to your consciousness.
Led by desire.
@9ineteen9 Somewhere in the middle , she should absolutely shut it down and I step in if guy gets aggressive but definetly don’t be a mute with hands in pocket like this guy . idk this is a good one
True Frame increases contact with reality.
Fake Frame reduces or distorts it.
1. Narcissism
2. Delulu
3. Epistemic Insulation aka The Reframe
That last one is especially insidious.
I see it alot in this space.🧵